I was really drunk after playing a drinking game and somehow I ended up in bed with this chick that seemed hot when i was drunk but is actually like a 3. A lot of people told me I should just screw the first chick I get a chance with just to get good for when a quality girl comes along and I always thought I would - It's just sex afterall

But when it actually came down to it, I had sobered up a bit and I was torn between whether I should or shouldn't. This is gonna sound stupid in a PU forum but I'm thinking that i would rather the first chick be someone i actually like - emotionaly aswell as physically...

Am I just being little bitch or should I go with this? Should i have screwed her?

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You should just do your own thing. At then end of the day, the only thing that is going to matter is how you view yourself. Be who you want to be, not what everyone else wants to be.

But for what it is worth, your decision on waiting is respectable to me.

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"Anything worth having doesn't come easy"

It's really just a matter of preference.

While some people think you should just get over with it and bang any girl when the opportunity is there just to get better, others think that you should wait for a girl that you are genuinely interested in to make the experience better.

After all, everything is relative. If you're still young, no need to stress it out. Just don't be the next 40 year old virgin.

I can tell you one thing though. You will remember your first time all your life. And that's for sure. That being said, it's really just up to you.

Personally, I lost my virginity at 18 year old with a rather ugly girl, right after I drank 19 beers. I never been that drunk, but I still remember it like it was yesterday, and always will. I thought I should just get over with that and start gaining experience. And if you are wondering, I have absolutely no regret about that experience. It made me who I am today and since then, I kept fucking hotter and hotter girls. So it's all good!

My 2 cent.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

My first girl was a 7 while I was drunk..

It was nice to get it over with.

To each their own. I respect anyone who goes after what they want.

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I was in situation like 3 weeks ago.
I'm 19 y/o, was still a virgin and I always thought: I want the first girl to be hot.
3 weeks ago I thought: fuck it, I need experience or I will never fuck hot girls, then I just banged someone (a girl, not rly good looking, same as you)
Now I'm just gaining experience etc. so over time things get better.

I don't regret it either, experience is what matters, after you got enough of that you can go for quality (imho)

genuinally my rule in life i take as being a daily thing it is basically my rules to success with anything just think about what you honestly wanna be. Do you want to be a chick magnet with 10-15 girls or do you want quality and have a small group of 1-2 girls or do you want marriage material long term relationship. Think of yourself as being one of the above and picture it in your head everytime your with someone.

Next take the risks to become that without doing anything illegal. If you see banging 200 girls a night being your thing and your whole avatar then do it. Don't do something because 90% of ur friends say well get experience.

I will tell your right now I will not have sex with any girl... not because I dont want to be a pimping chick magnet. I rather have a quality relationship rather than a countless number of meaningless sex. I dont think this makes me any less of a PUA then mystery who goes on every girl he see's. I know for a fact good conversation, quality personalty and great attitude will go further then learning to bang a girl in 200 positions.

Sex comes after a lot of things before you actually do it, so why not get good at those qualities and then work your way in improving yourself otherways once you meet the right person.

Now if this is not ur cup of tea and you want to bang a women for the hell of it then go for it just to get it out of your system. In reality a lot of people got it right as far as you remembering it for the rest of your life. IT will be either the best thing ever or biggest nightmare.

Don't be fearful either about what others thing or the naysayers do what you want and don't take things personally. If we all lived with no risks and lived a perfect life then we wouldn't be where we are today in the world.

Thanks for the input guys
I'm just gonna fuck a chick that looks better. A 7 at least... I have too much pride to screw 5's and below
Cheers,
Shinobi

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My first lay was a 5, with the body of a 9.

Sometimes it's good to just get it over with. As long as you're always moving up the ladder and not down, then it's all good.

Why are you posting here if you decided not to bang her?


Of course you should have fucked

I fucked this really unatractive girl last saturday, probably a 3, and I'm not proud, I wish I could redo the situation. Everybody likes sex, but it's okay to have standards.

What I'm saying is that the two opportunities are:

1.Have bad sex, get a reference.
or
2.Have standards, and stay in a frame of abundance, knowing that girls are DTF with you.

I see you have chosen, and I would have done the same thing.