| My background:
I was a virgin til I was 18, my first fuck was a fat chick friend.. when I was 16 there was a girl I was almost all the way there with, but my penis had a bad reaction to the condom .. not like an alergy, just every time i put it on it would go soft. i guess i didnt find her all too hot and it showed that night.
anyways, it was when I was 18 i decided to take on the feat of trying to get laid as much as possible.. shortly after my 19th birthday when i just started having some girls on the go, I started dating (and f*cking) the woman who I would be with for the next 5 1/2 years. She was 7 years older and insecure from a husband who cheated on her previously, had when we started dating had a 9 year old daughter. The sex, however, was plentiful and outstanding. Hottest and nicest pussy i've been in to date.
After a long term relationship of having been maniuplated, deprived of trust, having her emotional outbursts run on my self esteem and being accused of making actions to which would be cheating I had had enough. I started hitting the intimate sections of lavalife and started cheating. For some wierd i dont feel good enough to be without you reason i moved in with her and lived with her for the next year, id continued to cheat on her. end story, finally dumped her, jumped into the game and started climbing the 10 scale ladder, still finding most online and not caring at all what they looked like... 3's 4's 5's, 6's, 7's, 8's .. thats where I am now .. 7.5+ .. I haven't ever had a 9 or 10, though I saw my long term x as a 9. Her body was slamming but her face has since ... well .. not so 9.
She was my 3rd (including when i was 16 if it counts.. halfway counts right? i mean .. i was in her somewhat... ) when we brokeup i was hitting on my 8th. That was 2005.. Now I'm aiming to hit 27..
I am 28 years old.
I learned a few things about relationships and formed my ideology against the psyche of women in relationships, what they want, and what I call "picket fence syndrome" .. They all want to have that ideal relationship and for some reason see me as their ideal long before I would ever admit to being exclusive.
I dated some chicks casually but never exclusively (don't tell them that. its flirting, not lying.) I've been dumped over text msg when tey were drunk in my sleep and woke to a following text saying ims orry i didnt mean it. I genuinely hate women. their manipulative behaviors and shit ... i take none of it, i get bullshit and say next!, and claim my next number.
I do, however, Love to fuck and ..
What I love most is the chase. I love it. The challenge of stepping up the ladder and meeting hotter and hotter girls, I'm all into it. What I'm bored of, all the bullshit hours you need to go through to get into their pants.
I met a girl who claimed to be petrified of commitment, must know eachother and be dating for 2 years+ before moving in together, had been engaged twice and was skeptical and gunshy of dating.. this was my match, as outrageous and sarcastic as me and knew i flirted with girls all the time. I didnt even sleep with any other women for the first 6months we dated, then she got loopy and ran her mouth about feeling neglected to my snowboarding and business getting busier and our spending less time together. I dumped her when she text dumped and switched to single on facebook then pulled the "im sorry i didnt mean it" .. i dated her for the past 9months, a week before xmas I said this is more than i said i'd ever tolerate again.
bam, here i am in the game .. fuck relationships. fuck being accountable to a woman just to get under the patch of hair between her legs. i am me, i know what i like doing and im going to continue to do whatever i want, whenever i want, wherever i want and will answer to nobody when doing said things. i own my schedule.
I wouldn't say I'm an AFC .. however, I'm not consistently batting 8-10's. Hence my game needs work, I want F-Closes and no BS dinner, talking, banter in between. I want the fastest point to between their legs and a whole bunch of variety. I'd be content adding another 23 to my top score 2008.
My current game: Tucker Max style, get drunk, say obnoxious things, be outrageous, insult all girls no matter how ugly fat or hot, and somehow it's worked for me .. cocky funny would be my style. I need to up my game and get some primo, its quality not quantity.
my roommate gave me "The Game" for xmas, after the first 2 pages I am addicted. In 3 days I'm 350pages into the book, its here by my right arm waiting to be read.... I'm stoked to be part of this community to offer my voice on what things have worked for me in the past but more importantly how to take my pickup game to the status of artist.
my name, yohan .. its a name i made up that was crap when i was like 15 to try and rip people off for sites to download pirated software off of .. i made a lot of good deals and made some online geek friends so the name ended up sticking... now i tell people yohan is where it fits when its soft. "in yo han"
This is my 3rd post and I'm happy to be here ...
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