Seems some of us are learning this stuff to get new women. Some are learning it to recapture past or current women.

If your reason (whether or not you want to believe it) is to get someone back, Then you're in for the wrong reasons. That ship has past. Sure, it could happen but it probably won't.

There is one or two women I'd love to get another crack at. One or two I thought was my soul mate but experience has taught me that I should let them go..and I did. Some things are just wrong place, time, etc. Deal with it and move on. Learning this stuff to win someone back won't work and its not what its intended for.

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"if you see me with a white woman, I'm just holding her till the police come" -- Redd Foxx

yeah i agree with you on that.
i came into the 'game' because of past failings with girls, and i think if there is a whole community that has all the knowledge and is willing to help you out, why not take the help and become a part of it? any man has to learn how to interact with women, how to attract them sooner or later. i prefer sooner. i too have a past relationship, and even though is still am in contact with her, i am not trying to game her, we are just friends now, and i'm comfortable with it. i think, there are billions of interesting, amazing women out there, so have an adventure and meet as many as possible. there is really no point in ones-itits.

i am in the game to improve myself.

ie. become more confident, better with women, and generally become a better all round person.

when i have more experience id be happy to pass it on,

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

Personally, I joined the game because I refuse to fall vicim to "getting lucky". I want to be able to choose a girl based on my criteria, instead of being the mere pickings of a girl because she thinks I meet her criteria.

Confidence with women, the workings of stating intent and being able to see it through, being more comfortable in social interactions in general... All are goals Ive seen myself improving on and learning to develop from my involvement with the community so far.

to recap: taking control and not falling victim to chance.

im with slai with that one

Yeah i have to agree with Slai as well. I was stuck dating the girls no one wanted and never had the chance with the girls i desired. It was a horrible feeling and was driving me insane. I had so many questions and was getting frustrated to the max with all the problems. I needed to change. I'm very glad i did it while i am still young, this gives me alot more time to enjoy the better parts of life . Now that im here i just want everything to be solid game, if its fools mate im not interested. Where as before i would've leaped right into fools mate than feal in love in one day, chased the girl for 2 weeks than have her go out with another guy. Wow.. such a AFC.. !! almost embarrassing to talk about it haha!

-Impact

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

basically i started with the self help confidence things, been single for over a yer now jus dating and such in that time, but i thought if i learnt this then i'd feel allot happier in the fact im single, and this only improves chances of finding some1 that you like.
you cant meet em if you dont talk to 'em. And now i'm just a bit above AFC, but i now if anyone calls me a chump, or whatever i got the confidence to think and say that your loss mate. Feels good

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

I got into all this because I kept attracting the girls I didn't go after,
and getting LJBF's from the girls I did go after.

I would try for a girl, and it would never go anywhere.
But while going for this girl, I'd meet other girls, having no intentions.
And those were the girls that ended up attracted to me.
Most of the time, I didn't even mean for it to happen.
Whenever I wasn't focused on getting the girl to like me, they just would.
But I'd be too busy going after somebody else... unsuccessfully.

I wanted to figure out why this was happening.

I wanted to be able to pick out a girl, go for her, and succeed.
No more accidental pickups.

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You can learn and learn and learn all you want... but until you go out and use it, it doesn't mean a thing.

I got into "The Game" due to the fact that I was extremely shy and i needed to overcome that. I never really had much of a problem keeping their attention or making any moves. It was really only breaking the ice and showing value that made me lose out. So I started getting into it. And now I'm getting better at the aproach. And I have all of you, and some select others to thank for it.....Thanks everyone!

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The hotbox will be the fall of mankind!

I'm just starting. Some successes and lots of, shall we say, learning experiences.

I was sick of the lack of control.

i got into the game cos i had no game

I'm in the Game because I lost my game being in a long term relationship. I didn't know how to pick up chicks anymore. Over the weekend I had my 1st real success story using the materials I've learned and reading the posts. Check out "The Professional Photographer" in the lounge.

The Game we're all in here is not only to pick up women, but to give ourselves self-satisfaction knowing that you have self confdence and you don't fear yourself anymore. Bottom line...That is all it is.

For you newbies like myself, try the advice I was given by Element:

Say hi to everyone you see and make eye contact with.
Try going after the not so pretty girls (Girls that may not get a lot of attention)

All week I'm using Element's advice and BAM!! number closed 2 numbers this week on top of my success over the weekend! I'm feeling like "King of the Jungle"!

All by saying "Hi" and striking up a conversation. Finally, my Penis and I are friends again. He hated me for the longest time!

I threw my fears away and I'm feeling the Game!

From a Newbie to all you other Newbies...I promise you it can be done!

And for the Ex. Girlfriends that you may be trying to get back, ask yourself this question.........."Why?" You already got that!

Arsenal is 100% right! If that is what you in this for, then this stuff isn't for you.

Go buy flowers and say: "I miss you my Poopsie Poo, I love you! Please take me back, I'm not complete with out you.

Remember this: If you do decide to be that way it won't be long when a PUA steals her away.

"To be The Game you have to know how to play The Game"

Initially cuz I had no game, but now I want to love as many women as possible at one time! (and at the same time too... if you catch my drift!)

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Being a man who is getting through a divorce i felt the need for change in my life.I want Love ultimately but i want to be more in control of my life and more in control of women and the situations sourrounding them in general.with my ex wife i was just too good to her and i fell into the nice guy role early in my life.I want to change things and be FUCKING MAN!!!be confident,strong and independent.

My best freind who has went through the same shit i have recommended the "Game" to me to read.He told me it made him a better man and helped him read women better.I read it and it opened my mind in a big way.I basically am not a guy who wants to sarge slutty bars and clubs to F-close whores..Whores are easy anyways.I'm tired of whores but i want a lasting relationship where im this new Man and more in control of my life.I'm more confident and happy cause women dont run over me as much cause i read them better.I respond in a stronger confident sexy way that seems to work really well.I dont develop one-itis like before.I talk to alot more women at once now instead of focusing on one.I'm in this to make myself a better man.I believe it will.

r u actually even a male????

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"The first few seconds of when u meet her, always matter the most"
-A study from cambridge university