after the first phone call how, long should you wait for a second one ?

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Depends on how well you played your game. You need to give more detail!

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well i got her number, called her no answer call ended, i didnt call her back i was like what the hell, but 20 min later she calls me and we talk for the first time for about an hour, than during our convo she brought up if i am a relationship type of guy, we hung up by saying good night talk to you later.

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Still not enough info. But these are some of my thoughts.

well i got her number, called her no answer call ended, i didn't call her back
Good!

if i am a relationship type of guy?
I have mixed feelings about this

A relationship type of guy? sounds a little like a red flag! you are just a interesting guy whos giving her a great time, why would she try to label you as a 'relationship type'?

She could be trying to test your limits, trying to see how far you are willing to go with her, if your a guy that can go all the way, or just another person that wants her for the "services".

Second opinion would be appreciated!


good night talk to you later.
I don't like this much either. Usually in my case after a phone its a date. The phone was usually used as a time bridge to go out and meet her or to have her come over! or very rarely to build comfort.

If i were you i wouldn't call her anytime soon, maybe wait a few days. Than call her and schedule a date for a day other than Saturday or Friday.

-Impact

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"are you a relationship type of guy"

Sounds like a test to me. Id respond "no, not yet", and move on. If she persisted the topic, id just go "Look, I dont look for girlfriends, I look for people whose company I enjoy and that enjoy my company as well. If the right woman comes along, I can see myself being exclusive, but until then I make no promises".

Not word-by-word like that, but that would be the overall gist of what id convey.

I second Sali, great answer!

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you'll be able to tell based on how enthusiastic she was.
remember to end the phone call on a high note!

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