Ok so im a 21 year old guy, im still a virgin due to my rappid growth and that causd be to get lots and lots of stretchmarks

i got them on my shoulders, lats,lowerback,ass,w aist, their all faded to white by still very noticable in bright light

I was forced to spend 3 summer vacations inside playing computer games, everytime some friends would ask me to go party or go to the beach i would allways come up with excuses, 2 years ago i decided to join the gym to make my stretchmarks not look so horrible, i didnt get anymore stretchmarks but i still dont feel more confident than i did befor, i gaind over 45lbs of muscle, i was very dedicated to get myself in better shape.

Im 6.5ft 215lbs, not overweight iv got an aesthetic looking body, and above avrage looking face

havent had a girlfriend in 4 years, i had to break it up when we got to the part of having sex, and once again i came up with some retarded excuse

6 months ago i started to get suicidal toughts, i cant keep going like this for much longer, i dont know what to do

And its all because of these fu**ing stretchmarks, im tearing up as im writing this.


The stretchmark on my shoulder i cant cear less about, i actually think they look pretty cool, the ones on my lats arent really noticable, the once im woried about are the once on my waist,lowerback and ass, the ass is coverd in small white ones , same with the lower back

I used to have so much confidence, if i saw a girl i tought was pretty i would go talk to her, now im even afraid of eyecontact

How much do girls really care ?

excuse me if there is any miss spelling or grammatical errors ...

The truth: They care much less than you do, and likely will not even immediately notice!

They are firstly attracted to confidence and that comes from a Sense of worth and self-confidence comes when you accept yourself as you are. not when you're trying to be what you think other people expect.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

The value of your life is defined by more than just the things you dislike about yourself. You're self-loathing and shame-spiraling at this point, and it's understandable. You think that since you hate your sm's so much, that women will too. But if you think about it, we meet women when we are clothed. We date them clothed, and we fuck them in the dark. It's likely she won't see any of your stretchmarks until you have already gotten her into your bedroom. So there's no reason to let something that she can't even see keep you from talking to her and seducing her. You're letting something that is basically a non-factor DESTROY your inner game.

Real talk. About 75% of the women I've had sex with have had stretch marks. Whether they were heavy or had kids, they still had them. Personally, I have none and they are a turn off to me, but I still fucked the shit out of each and everyone of those broads.

Do you really think that if the woman you have seduced likes you enough to go into your bedroom with you, that she's gonna peaceout on you the moment you take your shirt off??? HIGHLY doubtful bro.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Dude I've got stretch marks and used to freak out about them. I went to Uni, got laid and found out........no one fucking cares. One night stands never even notice them and gf's who will end up noticing don't really care or you will have by that point enough of an emotional connection it wont matter.

Nearly all girls have or will have stretchmarks. You need to get it in your head that these scars are part of who you are, they are part of your history and you don't care. Get your frame set strong that you don't care and the girls wont care. The strongest frame wins. Body builders get them and they call them battle scars. Fucking BATTLE SCARS. That's cool shit. That's an example of a strong frame.

I'm not trying to be over the top optimistic, shitting rainbows and such. It's just that it doesn't matter as much as you think it does.

My arms are covered with stretch marks. Because they got stronger, kind of cool really.

this seems like it's more of an issue for you, then it is for anyone else, would you not sleep with a hot girl because she had stretch marks?

To be fair, some stretchmarks are worse than others. I had a friend who wasn't even that big, but it looked like someone took a knife and gashed huge slits into his love handles. You're talkin' a half inch wide and 4 or 5 inches long. With all kinds of scar tissue in between. Those will be with him from now until forever. I'm not sure if it is more a function of how much weight you gain and how fast, or if it's a genetic issue with your skin's elacticity. I will say that using lotion and not allowing yourself to get fat will certainly mitigate the onset of stretchmarks.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Yeh they look bad when they're red/purple but they eventually fade to white and just look like scars. In a low or warm light they don't show up so if you're having sex just dim the lights or have lights in your room with a warm colour rather than brilliant white. If you're going to the beach or something then there's not a lot you can do but oh well fuck it. Anyone doesn't like it its their problem. Don't stop living your life because of what other people 'may' think. Someone once said "Don't make up excuses for why a girl might not like you, they're already pretty good at that themselves." =)

I understand your pain, but you must understand that there's probably none in the whole world that cares about them as much as you do. Everyone has them, and frankly it doesn't really matter when you don't let it matter. Are you willing to die because of some stretchmarks? My best advice would be to go out and get some real proof that it doesn't matter instead of just trying to believe what some random guys on a forum says.