This can never be truer. I recently realized,that a woman can meet her soul mate a 100 times over and miss him a 100 times over. Why is this,cause women sometimes do not give men the time they deserve. I remember my friend(female friend) who's like my best female friend,told me that she didn't even care to chat to me,on this idea of when she first met me,3 years later,she couldn't believe she almost missed out on our friendship on her stupid ideas of me. What I am getting at,women never give you time so you better make the most of what you have and prove you the 1,in the short frame or you will be filed as just another loser. You can be her soul mate but if you don't prove it,in that small time frame she will move on,especially good looking women.

Wauw.

Wauw what? Do you believe I am incorrect?

Yes, this is true. Women pass up a lot of golden opportunities with good men, and they either remain single WAY too long, or they end up with a lesser quality guy.

An analogy would be picking out fruit at the grocery produce section. For men, you pick up a peice of fruit and if it doesn't look that bad, you throw it in your cart. Women will pick up a perfectly fine piece their first try, but throw it back because they think they can do better. Then they go through the entire stack hoping to find that one perfect apple. There's no such thing as a perfect apple, so then they never find what they thought they were looking for and they get no apples.

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Dude, you're talking about women like they are some magical unicorn species. "You can be her soul mate but if you don't prove it,in that small time frame she will move on,especially good looking women." Seriously bro, if she wants to move on, let her. No need to qualify yourself to that shit.

Dude read the post,never once did I say chase her,or have I been chasing. This is an approach forum,so I'm referring to the fact that you first impression is all that is important,cause it maybe your last. It doesn't matter if you would be the best couple in the world if she doesn't know that,she's gone. That is the reference to the soul mate thing,as I have changed peoples minds on the second impression,and then they find the real you,but women don't give second impressions,a lot of them don't. So make your first impression count,like there isn't a second. That's all nothing about unicorns or whatever else. If you so awesome she will stay around at the beginning,but if you 1st impression or the time she gives you to prove you relationship material is bad how can you show her you awesome,even if you are awesome,her responses will be careless and you won't be able to prove it. Improve that,that's all I'm referring to and if she reject you even after forget it,I never said chase her.