I'm posting this to give guys an example of how to baby-step a pull / extraction from the club and why you need to train the skill of solving the puzzle to her situation. I'm actually only 20 years old, so this is a pretty good example of what you can do if your game is super solid and you just keep pushing and expanding your comfort zone. Going in the "unknown" and actually seeking these reference experiences that most guys will never actually seek..


We go in Muzique and we didn't even expected to go out so I was pretty excited that we end up in a club. Now I'm seeing that the people there are more classy and I'm not at all dressed for the venue, I have a white tee-shirt that says pool boy on it and a hoodie. I start doing my approaches and these girls seem to give me a tough time, however, I just re-main centered...just not affected at all by anything from the external world. Now I almost make-out with this hot Asian chick, but she denies me so I move and I see one girl walking in the hallway. I point at her and yell: "You know how to party! Yes you do!" I open my arms and yell: "Spread some love!" She hesitated and she looked at my reaction...I just remained icy. She complies to the hug and after 10 sec it was just on. My intent was really good, we were almost making out after 30 sec so the physicality was there and I know she's attracted. So I grab her hand and I move her in a corner. Clarity in thoughts, words & actions was just perfect, I was leaning back against the wall and I just relaxed, I demonstrated in 5 min that I have so much value that she started gaming me and we both just shoot the shit for a really long time, but at the same time, I'm always physical and touch her in different places so I'm playing with her arousal here, when she started really wanting more I was just stopping, teasing non stop push-pull. After maybe 30min, I hear she's 31 and I tell her I'm 23 just to make up for the age difference. I start finding out about her situation so I asked her with who she came and where she lived. She says she came with two friends and they all came by walking and that she wants to leave with them at the end of the night. The objections are your key to the pull.

So I know they don't want to be separated and I'll have to find a way once I'm outside to do that. If she came by walking, it means her apartment is near the club, so key #2 found. I look at my watch and 10 min before the club closes I'm like: "Damnn I haven't ate for 5 hours I need to eat some pizza. Come with me. Now!" (stop asking for permission, be decisive) She mumbles something but I just grab her hand and yank her towards the exit. I tell her friends: "Hey guys let's go, we're leaving". Everyone just follows me and once we're outside I make small chat with her friends just so that they know I'm normal and cool. We start walking in the direction of her apartment and my girl stops in front of the restaurant and she's like: "Well, here's your restaurant, let's go eat" I'm like: "Ah damn it they're closing at 3AM..." It was actually open written in big letters OPEN, but I point at a restaurant near it and say: "Damn it's closed". As soon as she sees the CLOSED sign of another restaurant, I quickly scramble her RAS by yelling nonsense ("McDonalds, damn it, hey where we're going? oh yeah we were supposed to do that oh shit, bla bla nonsense stuff) and suddenly just shift her attention to something else by yelling: "I'm sure you have salad at your house! Let's go I'm super hungry" in the same time I lead her by the hand so she just complied by completely forgetting about the pizza. Now we're almost there and one of her friends starts saying like: "Wow you're bringing a guy home! You don't even know him". I solve the issue by giving rational reasons that I'm going at her apartment just to eat a bit and than I'll be gone and every time she starts to say something about me going home with her, I just start talking loud about a random subject so she just gets suck in to my reality and she starts talking about that subject. Yes, women have the attention of an ant...you put some emotion in the way you talk and a loud voice and they'll just follow up with that without logically putting the pieces together of what is currently happening. We arrive at her house and of course, I don't want a fucking salad so I make out with her on the couch and her friends are looking at me. I go: "Hey give me a glass of water I'm thirsty". I get up and follow her in the kitchen...when she enters I just smash her against the wall and make out to get her really aroused. Do I grab a glass of water? No. When she starts to just a little bit moan, I grab her hand and lead her in her room where I closed the lights, throw her on the bed and the job is done. Smoking body for a 31 year old..

Develop the skill of solving the puzzle. All of this is made on the spot, I did not pre-plan this. Being present to the moment is so important, in order to have clarity in thoughts, words & actions. This is why attraction happens almost instantly. This is why after 30 sec, we were almost making out. Most guys are bombarding themselves with questions about how's going and what are they going to do in the future and what technique or routine they should use. As soon as a girl senses you're in your head to think of a smart thing to say, or analysing how you can pull her, you'll most of the time lose attraction. Not being in your head sub-communicates a LOT of power and confidence. Don't think. Grab her fucking hand and pull her outside. Once you're outside, get creative and find ways to fuck the girl. Her objections are basically what you need to solve in order to end up in a bed together. Most guys never get good because no one pushes themselves to seek references that are out of their reality. Explore the "unknown". Seek sets that are super hard and that make your heart pound. When there's that inner voice of: "I don't want to pull this girl, I want to get the number and play it safe". Shut the fuck up...and Play to Win. Playing safe in the long run will not make you really good with women. You'll never reach an elite level by just doing "easy sets" and just collect numbers here and there. Seek hard venues, re-enter the fucking set until the girls run away from you. I hope you enjoyed the reading and again, fucking push the limits..

I forgot to mention a really important aspect of the pull: NOT TAKING HER NUMBER. Don't take her number before having sex..if she doesn't have your number, she has more leverage to sleep with you. If you exchange numbers before going out of the club for example, when you're pulling she can think: "Well whatever, I have his number so I'll see him next week" and she'll be less inclined to keep going with you. On the other hand, if she doesn't have it..she risks losing you. There's suddenly the risk of never seeing you again that goes through her mind. And if you're a high valued alpha-male, she will not want to lose you. She will be then much more willing to go home with you. Just take her number after you sleep together, and now you've won the girl..

Well done my man!

Most of the time when I see the topic this long I don't even want to read it.. But this stuff is great! Keep on doing what you did & thanks for sharing bro!

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So whenever they were objecting you just changed the subject? Lol, j
How? "look a squirell! lets go home..." i know girls that would Actually try and fight you if you insulted their intellegience like this.

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It's called sucking a girl into your reality and bombarding her with different emotions so she can't LOGICALLY process what's going on.

When her friends saw us in the club, my Intent was 100% clear. It was clear that it was on, the only thing that was missing for us to fuck was a bed. Just full on laser eye contact, physicality and sexual tension. So they knew in the back of their minds that if we were alone we would sleep together, they saw that she was really enjoying herself. This girl actually told me after 15 min that I approached her that she feels like she's in another world with me and she forgot that we were in a club. So her friends obviously saw she liked me a lot + me defusing the situation with logical reasons makes them rationalize and not feel slutty.

There's no insulting of intelligence at all..women need to have logical reasons so that they can justify to have gone home with you, even if they want to sleep with you, because of social conditioning. They don't want to feel like they're sluts..95% of the cases. You need to go out more mate you have a lot to learn.

What specifically justified your actions with them though? You said that even after giving them the reason that you were "just Going to eat", they still weren't buying
It.

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I'm not justifying my actions dude..I'm acting through my own intentions. They didn't bought what? I got the girl..read my lay report, all that I've done is written. You have trouble understanding because it's outside of your reality..I perfectly explained what happened.

You were vague dude, that's why i asked u about it. Why are u picking a fight with me? I havent attacked u a single time, all ive done is ask a question yet u respond in a
Defensive and rediculing way...

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"Those who push themselves and are willing to face pain, exhaustion, humiliation, rejection or worse are the ones who become champions" -Style