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PostPosted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 11:36 pm 
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lol, or more then likely her R value is slightly below average, and only appears to have any worth due to a false pretence of scarcity.
Below average?

A woman that's promiscuous has a lower replicative value, in the same way a man has a lower survival value if he fights a lot and loses regularly.

Not only is the woman that is promiscuous in danger of becoming pregnant with another mans child, she's also in danger of contracting diseases that render her infertile.
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Virgins are easy, and anyone who tells you otherwise is obviously inexperienced on the subject.
A virgin that's over about 15 or 16 years old is not easy, IMO.

If she was easy, she either wouldn't be a virgin or has been locked up in a closet, etc.. somewhere. :lol:
Women in thier 20's who are still virgins would most likely have a much lower R value. Due to confidence issues which are typically derived from iinferiority... So you think that someone who is timid and weak is likely to have excellent genetics?

Also your rebut is fundamentally flawed... I never claimed a promiscuos women would have a higher R value... There is alot more then a fine line between virgin and slut. Starbuck have you ever been with a virgin? You talking like someone who thinks it's the holy grail... and people who think that of virgins have usually never been with one. It's highly overrated trust me.

And what I call easy perhaps is the same thing you call difficult... those are just labels. I just don't think that 3 dates is that difficult. I don't see why someone with little to no experience on a givin subject would argue facts with someone who has experience (unless by chance you've slept with several virgins who are in thier late teens/early twentys, in the 2-3 years)...

Your a homeowner correct? Now think if a homeless man was disagreeing with you, because he knew that if you keep doing what your doing, you'll never own a home... It just doesn't make much sense to me to argue over something that you don't have experience in.

Perhaps it's Envy :lol:


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lol, or more then likely her R value is slightly below average, and only appears to have any worth due to a false pretence of scarcity.
Below average?

A woman that's promiscuous has a lower replicative value, in the same way a man has a lower survival value if he fights a lot and loses regularly.

Not only is the woman that is promiscuous in danger of becoming pregnant with another mans child, she's also in danger of contracting diseases that render her infertile.
Actually, that's not what anthropolgists would suggest. I would suggest reading Why is Sex Fun? by Jared Diamond before coming to such conclusions. There are many good reasons for a person to be more promiscuous, male or female. It can highly increase replicative value if done properly; increasing not only survival chances of the offspring, but making it so that superior mates father the child, while superior care givers raise the child.

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Women in thier 20's who are still virgins would most likely have a much lower R value. Due to confidence issues which are typically derived from iinferiority... So you think that someone who is timid and weak is likely to have excellent genetics?
In my view, a woman that's a virgin in her 20's doesn't have less confidence. In fact I would say she probably has more confidence and more self esteem in herself.

To be a virgin is to be different than most everybody else. This takes incredible personal character. It is to be a leader rather than a follower.

Now, to men who want to f..k her outside of the bounds of what she considers a relationship where she will give up her virginity, they of course don't consider this a value and tend to attack her choice. Until they want to get married.

Then suddenly, it's 'where are all the virgins'.. :lol:
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Also your rebut is fundamentally flawed... I never claimed a promiscuos women would have a higher R value... There is alot more then a fine line between virgin and slut. Starbuck have you ever been with a virgin? You talking like someone who thinks it's the holy grail... and people who think that of virgins have usually never been with one. It's highly overrated trust me.
Yeah, I have. When I was a young fellow. I stopped trying to get it in after a while, and settled for a BJ instead. :lol:

My first wife was also a virgin (19 y.o.), although her hymen wasn't intact, she had never had intercourse with anybody else.

But what does that have to do with anything?

Doc, do I detect more than a little animosity from you towards virgins? Frustration perhaps?

Every guy wants a woman who is as physically pure as possible. If for no other reason than to make sure when she gets pregnant it's our child and not someone else's.

The other extreme? The Jerry Springer show.

I don't think we're promoting that sort of behavior here.., or are we?
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And what I call easy perhaps is the same thing you call difficult... those are just labels. I just don't think that 3 dates is that difficult. I don't see why someone with little to no experience on a givin subject would argue facts with someone who has experience (unless by chance you've slept with several virgins who are in thier late teens/early twentys, in the 2-3 years)...
Ok, so you're claiming yourself to be the deflowering virgins expert in on PUA forum?

Should we look for you on Dateline NBC next or something? :lol:
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Your a homeowner correct? Now think if a homeless man was disagreeing with you, because he knew that if you keep doing what your doing, you'll never own a home... It just doesn't make much sense to me to argue over something that you don't have experience in.

Perhaps it's Envy :lol:


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Doc, I'm a high status sort of a guy. I don't need to come to an internet forum and make a bunch of 'unsubstantiated' claims about how many virgins I've deflowered to feel good about myself or to badmouth girls that make DHV choices that don't fit my lifestyle.

If I met a virgin tomorrow that was 20 y.o. I'd tell her no thanks. I'd tell her to save it for her husband. I don't need any p...y that bad.

And I turn down more than you get as it is anyway. :wink:

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lol, or more then likely her R value is slightly below average, and only appears to have any worth due to a false pretence of scarcity.
Below average?

A woman that's promiscuous has a lower replicative value, in the same way a man has a lower survival value if he fights a lot and loses regularly.

Not only is the woman that is promiscuous in danger of becoming pregnant with another mans child, she's also in danger of contracting diseases that render her infertile.
Actually, that's not what anthropolgists would suggest. I would suggest reading Why is Sex Fun? by Jared Diamond before coming to such conclusions. There are many good reasons for a person to be more promiscuous, male or female. It can highly increase replicative value if done properly; increasing not only survival chances of the offspring, but making it so that superior mates father the child, while superior care givers raise the child.
Rye, if you ever get married to a woman, you can come back and tell me how much you value her past, present and future promiscuity. :lol:

And if you don't value the institution of marriage, or monogamous committed relationships, then that's another topic entirely.

Like I said, if a woman chooses to be a virgin into her 20's, saving it for her husband I have no problem with that whatsoever.

In fact, I respect her for it.

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Starbuck, are you selectively reading my posts or something, because you don't seem to listen to a thing I say.

As I said quite plainly, if a girl values being a virgin until she's married, then you shouldn't try to work her into giving it up. If it's just a matter of her waiting for the "right guy", well then there's no reason why you shouldn't be the right guy if you are a good guy.

I quite value marriage and you would have been able to understand that if you read my posts without coming to conclusions based upon a sentence or two.

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I quite value marriage and you would have been able to understand that if you read my posts without coming to conclusions based upon a sentence or two.
Rye, your opinion seems to change like the wind. Here's your quote;
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There are many good reasons for a person to be more promiscuous, male or female. It can highly increase replicative value if done properly; increasing not only survival chances of the offspring, but making it so that superior mates father the child, while superior care givers raise the child.
Rye, this is nothing more than irresponsible fatherhood rationalized bunk. Where one guy impregnates a chick then shirks his responsibilities of fatherhood to his child.

This is displaying lower value as a man. Or no value. Or just being a common louse. Take your pick.

Rye, you can't value a committed, monogamous relationship such as the institution of marriage, and value promiscuity within that relationship at the same time.

No woman with any sense of value will put up with such low quality behavior. Unless she's crazy, or needs your money.

Now, if you want to have an open marriage with no physical commitment to your partner (just an emotional one), that's another thing entirely. And some couples have managed to pull this off successfully, for a while, especially when no children are involved. It's the exception rather than the rule out here in the real world.

Because it fosters a lack of trust within the relationship. Especially on the mans part. And especially if his wife suddenly becomes pregnant.

And no man of any value whatsoever will tolerate a wife that's carrying another mans child.

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Hey guys..........

In THE GAME............ style takes home a virgin.... and when he finds out she is a virgin, he sends her away... telling her that he is the wrong guy to take that from her....

He said... being a PUA...... has the responsibility of knowing when not to have sex with someone........

I think that it would be totally wrong..... to try and change someone's core belief......
you can't interact with someone without changing them...... but you can't set it as a goal to change someone.... if you do you chance ruining what you have.......
take my word for it..... i talk from experience.....


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And I turn down more than you get as it is anyway. :wink:
lol, now thats a completely unsubstanciated claim.

And no I don't claim to be an expert at deflowering women, in fact it's something I rarely do... however I have 7 times to be exact, and I have found that there is very little special about virgins.

Now, I wouldn't go making claims about things I have little or no experience on, such as picking out a wife from a newspaper classified... I would aquiese to someone with experience on the subject, such as yourself... Rather then claim that your ideas on the subject are incorrect.


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Now, I wouldn't go making claims about things I have little or no experience on, such as picking out a wife from a newspaper classified... I would aquiese to someone with experience on the subject, such as yourself... Rather then claim that your ideas on the subject are incorrect.
Oh man Doc..

Actually she picked my ad. When I was 37 y.o. and ready for a little more out of life than apartments, and one night stands.

I went out with about 20 different women from the personals before I met her. Most just wanted sex. Many had other bf's and some even had husbands. In some ways it reminded me of my bar days.

My first 37 years were nothing but one night stands, crazy girlfriends, 3 years of marriage to a virgin, bar hoppin', doing man sized jobs, the Marines, you name it.

I've been in every state in the Union, except North Dakota and lived in Hawaii for 3 years in my early 20's.

At some point in their lives most men look for something more out of life than just stroking their own egos. And more out of women than this.

One day you will too, hopefully.

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Starbuck

Why must you resort to unsubstanciated statements in an attempt to degrade me, as a response to statements of known fact?

I aplluad your varied living situation, thats great for you. I never brought that into play though... It's great that you are proud that you have lead a life of blue collar success, and served our country... but it looks like your falling back on that as a crutch, as if due to that fact what you say is accurate.

I don't need to stroke my ego... you'll notice the distinct lack of bringing up my past extracurriculars which I am proud of... Why is that? Because I don't see a reason to bring out this information... I don't need to qualify myself to you.

People who need to qualify themselves to other are usually suffering from... oh whats that line you love to use so much...

Envy :lol:


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omg i cant read all this crap lol

i think the biggest reason why she is a virgin because shes never had a real boyfriend. she is very shy and i think she let her over-protective parents brainwash her lol

well i took her out on the date today, we had a blast. we were together from 4:00 PM till about 10PM. she invited me to her house on campus to show me around. her parents strictly forbid her from going there when her other house mates arent there...so she broke a rule for me lol. before we got there, she was talking about having shots at the house. when we got there, there was no alcohol :( . that couldve been my chance, but i doubt it. plus i wasnt prepared anyway (no condom) and it was literally 50 degrees in there (no one is staying there over winter break). i think things are starting to get better, i can sense the suppressed sexuality in her when we make out. tonite we were making out, and she was grinding my leg like crazy. i think shes starting to open up.

earlier on the date i conviently slipped in a joke about the "im not going to sleep with you" remark and i totally made her feel bad about it, and she was very sorry. :D

keep in mind everyone, my goal is not to have sex with this chick as quickly as possible. i just dont want to date someone that there is no sexual future in. im not "gaming" her to have sex with her.


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this is how I got the virginity of two girls who were virgins and wanted to wait... the first one, I'd get her naked and lots of foreplay and oral, get her all hot and heated then have her grind on my dick... usually this makes them want it so bad you can just slide it in.. for my girl, she was doing this and it accidentally slid in and she hopped right off saying we couldn't but it felt so good... a week later we were fooling around and out of nowhere she asked if I had a condom..

on the second girl, I made it clear I liked sex and always talked about how amazing it is to be with someone you really care about and blah blah blah... this will only work if she's kind of easily influenced and curious.. She was a jesus freak, no sex til I'm married type but was going off to college and curious about sex. My argument I made to her was you're probably going to go off to college and have sex with some guy just trying to sleep with you that doesn't care about you, since you're so curious about it why don't we do it and you can see what you're missing out on and decide from there if you wanna wait or not and at least you know it will be with someone who truly cares about you... It worked!! lol

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That's smooth Advice. Well played sir!

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btw, what is replicative value or R value?


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what does replication value or R value mean?


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