met a hb9. know for a month now and we get along well this is a text convo we had which i need help from u guys

me: did u manage to get home without getting wet?

her: its stopped raining as soon as u left D: but i was a tiny bit wet

me: rain didnt want us to be together.

her: not only the rain... LOL!!

me: what do u mean?

her: was a joke :-O

me: im being really dumb today. wait did u mean u didnt wana see me?

her: yes that's what i was insinuating!!

me:lol ok. took me long enough to understand. what happened i thought we had a good thing happening ? Very Happy

her:what's a good thing happening? :-S

me: ok i guess we're both having a dumb day today Smile

her: nahhh u still havent answered my question!!

me: i dont know i was just thinking we get along sooo well. why what did u think i meant?

her: what like "really really well Wink"?

me: i guess....
actually u would be right if u felt the same way otherwise i would be
living in a fantasy

her: what are u on about? D:
maybe u are living in a fantasy..

me: ahh nothing... i can finally do that thing u wanted me to


after this she didnt reply back for 10 days

her: oops...sooooooo forgot to text back Very Happy

me: lol its ok i was busy anyways. so how come ur soo quiet? busy life?

her:lol yea mainly. i guess you were a bit wierd with that whole "living in a fantasy thing" :s

me: yea i figured you would misunderstand it. soz if i freaked you out Sad

her: i dunno... it seems hard to believe that i would misunderstand the whole convo D:. straight up, do u like me as more than a friend?

me: ummm...i dont know. i mean we are still getting to know each other dont you think

her: yeah.... but i only see u as a friend. like thats it, ends there. you know?

me: yea fair i understand

so should i make any attempt to go after this one. i mean Im happy to kinda wait around for her and make a proper bond before i start hinting to her again that i like her. and its not like i told her i liked her so i havent lost yet right??

Its all good man, she doesn't like you so what? don't let it get to you and move on...learn from your mistakes and move to the next girl.

Hey man, listen. You made it very clear u like her and u acted very AFC in the entire convo, even after the 10 break u still gave her a "sorry" and "where have u been" like you actually care, which you do. Don't wait the fuck around for her man, seriously. She's just checkin in on you to keep you as an orbiter, don't degrade yourself to that level, you're awesome.