I took Mystery's advice to hit on lots of ugly girls and I started gaming 6's and 7's. Over the last 2 years I had two LTR's with a couple of HB 7's. I recently broke up w/my gf and have found that I get hit on by a higher quality of HB these days... I'm not up into the 9 or 10 range, but the 8's are starting to be more receptive to my openers and approaches.

However, when it comes to getting D2's I have been hitting a sticking point. I have been telegraphing too much interest and have had two HB 8's cancel dates on me in the last two weeks. I may be trying to move in too soon after the recent relationship, but I get the feeling that I just don't know how to deal with the hotter girls.

Mystery once said that getting hot girls any harder than getting less attractive girls it's just different, and vice versa. I am done with bars and clubs and wish to move into the Daygame arena, but how do I start locking in my D2's. If I could get in front of them a second time I would shine as always, but don't know how to do this. Should I try the insta-date?

I don't mean to be crass but there just seems to be a difference in mentality between fat girls and thin girls, attractive or not... Should I go back to basics and start with approach material again? Should I just enjoy being single for a while and not worry about it? Am I being too forward by trying for the D2? I have been working the fb angle, but have been wondering if texting isn't the way to go. What say you all?

~lovecraft~

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How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being. - Oscar Wilde

Hey dude, don't worry about dating too soon after getting out of a relationship. That doesn't matter to the girls you are approaching, and they won't even know about it unless you tell them. The thing about hotter girls is they have more options, and if you aren't doing what they want they'll just "Next" you. Another pua on here told me a hb9 stopped talking to him because he insulted her dog. WTF? You can't be expected to walk on eggshells with these girls, always wondering if you're going to say the wrong thing. Yes, you should still look inward and analyze your game and make the necessary corrections, but you can only do so much. It sounds like you already know that you are coming across as too eager, which is a big no no. I'd start there and see if you can improve on that and get better results.

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