Hey I'm new here. I'm 20 years old, in college, blah blah blah.

Here's the story: Saw a cute girl at a festival, walk up to her, talk to her, get her number and she leaves. I wait a couple days and then I text her. We texted back and forth for a little bit but I wanted to keep the convo short so I got to it and asked her to go out to dinner that coming Thursday. We go out to dinner and conversation was pretty good. Not a lot of those awkward silent moments when neither person knows what to say, so pretty good I'd say. We mainly just get to know each other and all that, not any flirting or anything. A few days after the date (today actually) she texts me with a Hi(: so I'm like hey what's up blah blah blah. We texted for a little while and we got a little flirty but I wanted to again keep the conversation short (this is the right thing to do, right?).


So that's where I am today. I am planning on asking her to go play pool at a bar/country dance club this saturday night since she mentioned she wasn't very good and wanted to learn how to play. I haven't asked her yet, seems too early. I was going to wait till Wednesday or so to call her up and ask her.


Now, I shouldn't make contact with her between now and asking her out again, right? And I also shouldn't make contact between asking her out and the day of the date, correct? I want to break the physical barrier and I figure teaching her how to play pool is a really easy way to do so. Any flirting tips? Any kino tips? I basically want to know if I'm doing things right so far and what I should do in the future. This is the first girl I've taken out since breaking up with a girlfriend that I was with for a long time. Thanks fellas.

playing pool is a perfect opportunity to go kino, you wanna escalate every chance you get espically after hanging out ther 3rd time shes interested in you though bro if you guys keep hanging out.

Well I ended up calling her tonight and asked her if she would want to go to a certain country themed dance club/bar with me to play pool. She said yes all excitedly and what not. Then she asked "can I bring a friend?". I was like uhhhh sure that's cool.

But wtf? Why does she want to bring a friend? On our first date she mentioned that she doesn't like going to clubs (which is cool bc that's not my kind of thing either) and the friend that she's bringing has been to this bar before. Do you think she is bringing the friend simply bc she may be nervous/anxious about going to this place (since she doesn't like clubs)? Or have I been friend zoned?

And before anyone says something about not having her friend come, I know. I should have said something that would hint at her friend not coming but it was over the phone and didn't know what to say right then.