Hi guys... need some motivation here, been drinking tonight so forgive me if there's any spelling mistakes.

Used to be really big on gaming girls was living for it. Then I got really depressed after getting an illness called hypothyroidism, check it out, made me put on weight as well as other symptoms. I'm 2 stone heavier now, although I still have muscle underneath. I'm trying to get the weight off. I'm kind of at a low point as I've just got in from a night out. It makes me depressed how I don't even feel confident enough to approach women; behaving like an AFC as you guys would call it and also a wallflower. I just don't feel like I'm the man anymore which I know is necessary for getting with women. I don't even feel like harpooning for whale like women lol! Anyway jokes aside, would like some comments. Has anyone here gone through a dip when they just didn't feel like bothering with 'the game,' can anyone help me? I know ultimately only I can help myself, but, throw me a bone here....