Hey guys, I am fairly new to this and started sarging last week. I hit a situation today and I am not sure how I should have handled it.

There is an amazing receptionist at my dentist. I get on with her very well and we tend to flirt. I am in my mid 30's and she is 20. I think she is giving me IOI's however I am certainly no expert so no certainty.

Anyway, I turn up early so I have time so I am making her laugh and we are talking freely. There are others in the waiting room but no one is paying attention. Even managing some kino too. Then the manager of the clinic comes out of his room and in a loud and jokey way says "are you chatting up my receptionist ? She's taken dont you know".
My response was panic and shock as I was not expecting this. I immediately disqualify myself. with "hardly, she could technically be young enough to be my daughter".

He responds. "Me too". i then replay "why have you been chatting her up too". The girl comments how embarrassing this is and everything goes quiet.

I am really no expert but i'd appreciate some advice on what to say to her when I see her next and how to handle this better in the future.

You should've clarified that you were only talking to her because you want to fuck her.

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I disagree with Puaninja, that would not have been socially acceptable under the circumstances.

"My response was panic and shock" This is where you crashed and burned. You should have just laughed and brushed off the manager's comment. You aren't doing anything wrong so there's no need to panic. By acting guilty, you made the whole situation way more awkward than necessary.

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puaninja comments would have been completely inappropriate. I have a working relationship with these people.

I showed no panic or shock. I felt it and remained composed. I was very quick with my reply too. Does that help to clarify.

when that happends I use to be a total sick mother fucker (SMF) and I would reply "and so? What´s the problem about two people having conversantion?"

probably that would end not so well, because my language is pretty much as direct as I have more than 200 pounds. at this times I really enjoy being sort of scary.

most of AMOGs thinks they´re AMOG because no one stand their ground against them. Generally I do it, a big vulgar a display of power over them, and mostly is enough to shut´em up.

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Angry is probably not a good idea as his brother is about to use a drill on me. I am wondering what to say next time I see her.

Ignore it, mention it and laugh it off, make a point of saying "careful, don't want to be chatting you up again" and then start talking... any advice ?

I had a similar situation during my bootcamp in a pub when the girl's BF turned came over from playing pool and challenged me. There, I just owned it and said fair play! I like talking to beautiful women.. who doesn't ? This was a little different as I will always see these people again and again. I was trying to gleen a common interest out of this girl and then build on it. Just didn't get that far.

Angry is probably not a good idea as his brother is about to use a drill on me. I am wondering what to say next time I see her.

Ignore it, mention it and laugh it off, make a point of saying "careful, don't want to be chatting you up again" and then start talking... any advice ?

I had a similar situation during my bootcamp in a pub when the girl's BF turned came over from playing pool and challenged me. There, I just owned it and said fair play! I like talking to beautiful women.. who doesn't ? This was a little different as I will always see these people again and again. I was trying to gleen a common interest out of this girl and then build on it. Just didn't get that far.

The response you gave made you crash and burn, try picking up on the convo again tell her " I hope you didn't take the comment I made with the doctor the wrong way, I wanted to see if you had a sense of humor" "grin" and make a funny comment on her and then make a funny comment about yourself