I'm not new to online dating, I consider myself pretty decent at it definitely with the help of this forum. I'm in a new city for a new job though but I can probably get at least a date a week if I wanted to, but I've been disappointed after realizing some are actually older looking than their pic or fatter so I choose more carefully now.

Anyway, so I saw this one girl online, we chatted on OKCupid... got her to SPAM with me. We had a good time, we talked for almost 2 hours before I cut it short to go to sleep. The usual stuff, joking around, building rapport, negging here and there. (possibly could've negged more/flirted more)

So the next day, I saw that she viewed my profile again. Good sign. We chatted at night on OKCupid before I cut it short since she seemed busy. The next day, I messaged her, apologized for leaving so quick but I was tired, asked her for her number so we can talk/ set something up.. like go to vegas, get married etc... (a text I got from here somewhere) of course it was a joke but she said vegas sounds good right about now, here's my #... so I text her later, back and forth a bit and she was down to go to vegas, but she's busy the next 2 weekends so we planned for october (I'm definitely trying to meet her up before I even consider going to vegas with her), she doesn't seem like much of a texter or doesn't get text humor. Eventually she didnt respond to my last msg, which was ok because it wasn't a question or anything. 24hrs later... today... I sent her an opener, "hey, i was just thinking about you, wish you were here... so you can cook for me. " (we talked about her cooking for me before) but I got no response.

I enjoyed skyping with her, she actually looked decent. I actually saw her on OKCupid right now but I didn't message her. I know I'm just paranoid and that I should just move on or at least talk to 10 other girls or something. Which I'm doing anyway... but wanted to see if there's anything I can learn from this or if there's anything I can do. Thanks in advance.

Btw, this isn't my first post, not that I had many anyway, but realize my SN was the same as all my online dating SNs. So just wanted to be safe.

One of two things probably happened.

1. You bacame less priority than another guy she was talking to, if she randomly comes back in the next week or so then I would say this is what happened.

2. She wanted you to move more quickly, why did you not shoot for a meeting withing the 1st 3-5 texts?


Peace...

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I agree with what you said. She probably is talking to someone else more likely since I've seen her online.

Another thing could possibly be my last text. That's been bugging me a bit... since I concluded that she wasn't one that understands text humor well. I should've been more straightforward on texts and left the humor on the phone/in person. I haven't texted her again and probably don't plan to. If I do, possibly one last time next week for a meet. (she's leaving town for work the whole weekend.)

What's the reason behind a girl wanting to move more quickly? I didn't schedule a meet early because she seemed a bit shy, probably one of the first things she mentioned early on and I figure rushing into a meet would make her feel uncomfortable.

Talking to more girls is a cure to the "one" that got away. It's definitely helping but... like fishing, you always wonder, how big the fish could've been. haha