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PostPosted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 7:50 am 
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Someone said in my other topic that I should work on my inner game. So what should I do?
The situation is that I get angry if a girl is smiling at me, and I can miss a chance because of this, if the girl is liking me not laughing about me. But I don't know how to distinguish between the two.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:31 pm 
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You get angry if a girl is smiling at you????

lolwut?

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 5:32 pm 
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Yes, because they are laughing about me.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 2:02 am 
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Yes, because they are laughing about me.
There is a difference between smiling :) and laughing :lol:

Anger is like a mirror.It reflects the very thing that you hate or are angry about YOURSELF.Ponder on this,only you know.You don't have to tell us what it is.Change your attitude,change your life. Good luck.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 7:19 am 
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Of course they don't laugh in voice. I also don't always laugh in voice, but when I'm laughing inside I smile.
That makes no sense. So I am really angry at myself when I laugh about other people. Don't understand that.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 11:35 am 
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Just force yourself to think that they think only good thoughts about you. Seems like a self-esteem issue here.

Find all the best things about you. No-one should judge you by how you look etc. etc. Just make sure to show them that you're not the guy they should laugh at. Start by teasing them by going into what they're laughing about and then try to turn it all to so they see your best side.

EDIT: NEVER wait to be validated, just think that it worked and fuck everything else, if they don't want you, it's their problem, you're gone.

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I had major anger issues when I was younger and was certainly quick to think that people were laughing at me (when I was younger, they often were), so I know where you're coming from.

It's important to realise that women are different from men in this way - one of the IOIs listed in the Mystery Method is the girl whispering something in her friend's ear while looking in your direction and them both laughing. If two guys did this to a girl it would almost certainly be something mean. But with women, if they're acting lighthearted around you in any way then you're certainly not being shut out.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 30, 2012 6:35 am 
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Girls act differently. You should learn to react accordingly.

BTW, there's a certain stage in a man's life that he's angry at all times, he feels like the whole world is laughing at him. Don't let it get you down.

When you wake up, think positive things like how you like yourself to be.

And then learn to project it.

Others will notice it and you'll be an attention magnet.

A girl's smile mean many things, choose to think the positive side of it (like she's smiling because she likes you or something) then use that to your advantage.

Have fun! We're young only once.


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Learn to not give a crap about what people think. You will be a STAR!

I don't give a crap if even guys laugh at me.

I don't care if people call me names or anything man....Who gives a crap! Get over it and you will shine dude!

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