Hi y'all.

Tomorrow I'm having a date with this girl I met on the bus. We talked somewhat and had a nice, brief conversation. I didn't #-close her tho.
Luckily, last saturday while going out I walked into her again. The circumstances where a bit strange tho: I had been partying all day already and was tired as hell so I was just standing there and not giving anyone attention. She was being a big flirt that evening and my buddy tried to K-close her several times, didn't work. We had some small talk and she eventually asked my number.

The next morning I got a text from her asking if I was alright and wanted to chill that day, since I had some obligations that day I couldn't come chill with her. So we agreed on meeting up tomorrow.

Now my problem is how do I work this girl tomorrow, keep playing hard to get because she obviously is into me; asking my number, taking initiative for meeting up, starting convo's the whole time. Asking personal details; what's your best/worst characteristic, have you had any girlfriends, brothers/sisters etc. Or just try to escalate asap?

Gz.

I'm incredibly new at this whole thing, so take my advice with a huge grain of salt, but it seems to me that you should escalate.

How did you get her so interested in you the first day and second day?

Sounds like she's feeling you so you can escalate. I mean she did number close YOU, right?

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Thank you for the advice, escalating it is!

I sincerely do not know how I got her attention and even interested. I'll ask her tomorrow! For now I think it was me not giving her any extra attention and playing it cool while she was being flirty but we'll know tomorrow.

Ok so here is what happened yesterday.

We met up to go and take a drink somewhere. Had a very nice time talking and I had planned to take her somewhere else on forehand to start escalating as soon as possible. But since we were having a genuine nice time I decided to put that aside and roll with the date. Actually, the first time we checked the time was when she had half an hour left, we had been talking for over 4hours!

Routines.
The routines I used on her were some simple games. I used the 5-lies games, thumb wars and we played a game where you let the other choose between 2 opposites e.g Warm - Cold, Hard - Soft. [ this game can get sexual very fast ]
What worked very good was that I have a decent amount of pictures on my phone and was wearing some jewellery which all have a story to go by with it.

Overall it was a very successful date. No awkward silences, no phone checking, lots of laughing, loads of ioi's and the K-close at the end. Now I think this girl is potential girlfriend material and I sincerely do not want to mess up on this.

That's it for now, it seems like we are meeting up pretty soon again!

Great job!

Whats the game where you choose between two opposites?

Also, what kinds of stuff were you talking about? How did you make it last for hours? How did you get her to give you IOI's? What were the IOI's? How did you K-close?

I'm not trying to be snoopy or anything, I'm just trying to learn as much as I can about what worked and what didn't so I can apply it to my scenarios.

The game where you choose between two opposites is just like it says really. You take turns asking questions. I started out with asking her whether she prefers Hot or Cold. She answers Hot and it is her turn to ask a question. For example Blue or Green. This is a great way to get to know each other and it tends to turn sexual very fast because it is just a game. At my 3rd turn I asked her: Hard or Soft and she started giggling and answered with: depends on the situation. To which her question was: Shower or Bath, to which i replied: depends on the situation. See where this goes?

We were talking about anything really: study, work, party's, friends, situation at home etc. I think the chemistry was just there to talk and time passes when you are having fun! You don't get her to give you IOI's, it is just natural behaviour women have when they are interested and it is up to you if you can recognize these. Such as playing with their hair, eye's getting larger, eye contact etc, holding her hand and her not pulling away etc.
The K-close was just natural as well. She decided to walk along with me for a bit and when our ways passed we both went in for the kiss, it wasn't a long kiss but it felt like a seal of approval.

Hope this answered most of your questions!

Gz.