Hey guys,

So feel like I really screwed this one up. Well meet this girl at a good friends party and she came onto me really quickly. We hooked up most the night and I got her number after getting it off Facebook. Last night was extremely positive text game. Did lots of this right and ended the interaction on a high. But today this is when it went downhill very fast.

I sexually escalated it, but this where the mistake happened and I knew it was when I sent it. This how it went.
Me:you think you can handle me :p
Hb: I think I'm quite capable haha
Me:haha what makes you think you are? You haven't seen my wild side yet.
Hb: well I don't think it's as wild as my wild side so I think I'll be fine

Keeps going on like this and I say I know something that you won't be able to handle. She says she wants to know what it is very after me saying "this might be too naughty for you" and she says she doesnt care. Sent picture of vibrating egg with a controller and she suddenly turned.

Hb: oh my god lease tell me that's not what I think it is?!
Me: umm I can't read your mind but yeah it probably is.
Hb: well if its what I'm thinking, it's a no...
At this point I freaked out and tried to recover it but failed.
Me: this isn't it. You can relax, it's something else.
Hb: then why did you send me the photo?
Me: I'm actually not sure.

I couldn't believe what I had done. But need some advice to recover from this. I had something going really positively and had set up a day 2 on Saturday but after that I think not.
What should I do next?

Peace,
SikGun

So what you're saying is I should of shut the hell up when I was in front so to speak?

exactly, have real sex, instead of phone sex

Yeah, I was just trying to get the sexual banter up a bit, just probably took it little too far. What you suggest should be my next step?

Background: still in high school and in my final year (2months left) with final exams coming up in 1month. So its pretty crazy period. Just wondering how to recover from this if it's possible.

meet her up in person, if it's not dooable, find a new girl

often times it's impossible to recover from a situation that completely turns a girl off (but you don't even know if this girl is really turned off, you wussed out and lost certainty in what you were doing), you just have to practise on a whole bunch of different girls and find the limits, develope your own game plan, and then in the future you will know what you want and what you don't want, and you will have your own idea of what to do that will be certain to you

you can continue trying to sext girls before sex if that's your thing

but for the most part, texting and building rapport over the phone is most likely to kill interest, more then build it, especially with text alot can be taken out of context, way easier to just use the phone for logistics, and save the interest building/escalation for in person, where you can touch her, reframe negative emotions while not being ignored, and actually get a proper idea of the girls reactions and emotional state

Yeah i think i have realised that it might not be doable. But to be honest i after couple days i have gotten over it. Definitely going off to find a new girl. This weekend will be first time sarging in the nightclubs/bars as ill be legal to do so now.

It's hard to get out of the habit as i use text game to build rapport and know hearing it can kill interest..looking back with a couple of girls, you are 100% correct. Plus my humor doesn't always come through in messages so I'll try my best to just use the texts to just set dates and increase sexual tension.

Peace,
SikGun