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have you even brought this issue up with her before and found out what's going on?
or are you just going to break up with her purley on conjecture cause you don't really care about the relationship?
if you care, and haven't been open about this, what you are proposing seems fairly passive agressive
I am aware of that now, partly the reason why i edited the original post.
This is a small part of a bigger complex I'm dealing with in my own head, i have to come into terms with hidden insecurities i have left over from abuse i suffered when i was a kid. This makes me bipolar when it comes to emotions and taking confrontation to the next level when i do eventually instigate it.