Hi Guys,

I'll go straight into it.

About a week and a half ago, a friend of mine told me to come join him at a cafe where he sat with a couple of friends or so. I ended up sitting to this gorgeous, perfect freakin 10 girl that works with him, and is quite friends with him and we chatted.

Now, I know that describing hot girls rocks some of your boats, so just for the mental image - She is a fit as fuck, beautiful, red-dyed-haired metal chick. Not only that, but she's funny, smart, down-to-earth, reads 9gag, knows computer games, sexy as hell awesome person.

So basically I was a little bit cocky funny but I didn't really have to do anything really special because the conversation between us just went on by itself. We're interested in the same stuff, like the same kind of music and all that.

So after that I got her phone number and last Friday night we had our first date. We sat at some cool bar for a hour or so, made out a bit, went on to sit on a bench at the beach and made out some more, and generally speaking - I think it went quite well.

Now yesterday (the day after the date) - around 8pm I sent her an SMS, and it went something like this:

Me: So did you get to hear that band I told you about?
Her: Not quite yet, but it's on my task list =) On a whole other subject, sorry for doing it via SMS, but - I really enjoyed our date, but I don't want to move on past this.
Me: SMS... really? =\ What happened? I thought we had an awesome time.
Her: SMS sucks, I agree, I would have done it differently if I had the option. and nothing went wrong, I just have some unclosed stuff going on..
Me: ok.. sorry for going on and on, but think about it like 18th century courtship kinda thing Those stuff have anything to do with me? or did I just meet you at the wrong time? too bad, I had such a good idea for our second date! =O
her: nothing about you you're awesome. it's my ***** (best translation from hebrew would be like - shit that's going in my life right now). A lot of stuff that I have to work out with myself. Thanks for a quality date ^^
Me: ok I'll tell you what: 1. Timing is a bitch. 2. I really did enjoy myself yesterday. 3. I'll call you after I get back from London, we'll see if things change by then
her: Agreed.

So I'm flying to London in like two weeks for ten days.

Does anyone has any tip for me to make this shit work? I know that it would be easier to say fuck it, but to hell with that, if only for the challenge, I want a freakin second date.

Tips, anyone?

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First, I just want to say, as soon as she mentioned 9gag I would have left the table!

Now lets get serious!
I think you did pretty good. When you return from London, call her. Don't send her a text, actually CALL! Tell her to meet you for drinks at a specific location at a specific time.
During the next few weeks before you leave and while you're away, send her a text every couple of days. A little joke, something funny you see, or something that reminds you of her. Don't talk long, you don't want to become a "texting buddy" Just do this enough to keep yourself on her mind.

Good luck
WC

If she went on the date with you and was kissing you, it means she has some attraction to you. It sounds to me like she is being a typical woman and talking her self out of things, or she isn't ready to date. In my opinion the only way to get to this girl is to befriend her.

This will allow you to spend more time with her and give you the chance to win her over with your personality. It is critical that you do not come on to her during this process, just be friends. If she has attraction to you, it will eventually show, wait for her to make the first move. I'd text or call her sometime while your away and say something like this:

Hey X I was just sitting here bored and i remembered ( a specific time when you were out, when you both laughed at something funny) It got me thinking of how cool a person you are and how much we have in common. I understand that we went on a date and it wasn't the ideal timing. BUT! I don't see why we should let that ruin what could potentially be good friendship.

Hopefully she is likes that idea and you can make plans to hang out, just as friends.

There is a risk that you may be forever friend zoned, but at least for now you are still in the game and in her world and if she is as hot as you say she is, just being around her will get you tons of attention from other women regardless. Focus on having fun with her. It's a win win.

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