| Elphonzo!
This my interpretation of "the way" against my PUA & high school career...there's definitely more input for others to share, but this is a rock solid, steady way for you to blast your career even further...you can be sure I know 'cause I studied & applied PU from sophomore to my senior year.
You've struck gold by reading The Game & talking with us while you're still in high school! Though it's not uncommon for high-schoolers to get on sites like this, it's still awesome (I'm eighteen and have been doing this for over three years--do the math)
It seems like this "getto" kid rocked your boat a little bit. He made you feel insignificant, embarrassed, or stupid--whatever word you'd use for this situation. Probably felt a little uncertain about what would happen with your high school career between you and your peers.
Well, I have a SUPER solution to your problem--one that took me two and a half years of high school to figure out! Listen to me, and this WILL work for you!
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Who You're Reading From and Why You May Want to Listen to Me (and Others Like Me)
NOTE: While this does stroke my ego a little bit, I'm typing this out so you know who you're receiving random-ass advice from.
Surreptious.
In High School, I wasn't perfect at it.
I let it go for about six months, even.
I told myself how cool I was during this time--and didn't do the high pressure, scary things like talking to the woman or doing crazy things during class to get the girl.
I didn't go out beyond high school enough to improve my game.
I was the most popular and infamous for doing crazy things from the game.
The Game consumed my life my entire high school career.
The way I played it during my high school career, initially, got me both included and alienated because of how different I was
Now the good (GREAT) parts:
- I DID get two pages in the yearbook, for which I did not ask, for what I've done (how's THAT for cool??); it wasn't about anything special...it just had the title "Meet 'Surreptitious'"
- I went to this Cross Country camp where there were girls EVERYWHERE (that no one would open)--after singing that song where he goes "You are beautiful--just the wayyy you areee!!) really loudly-- this girl (HB7.5, in retrospect) turned to me and sang those words to my face where we then kissed in front of hundreds of peers
- I did get mad applause for a terrible senior speech, for which I was terrified
- The girl I had a crush on in the fifth grade (plus several other girls) came and sat next to me--displaying blatant IOIs that I could've taken advantage of (which YOU will now be able to, when they happen)
- I approached a table at an Olive Garden that seated a beautiful volleyball team (fifteen babes with a coach), and I sat down on one knee and said, "Will you accept my breadstick?" It was obviously like saying "Will you accept my penis" in bread form
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About AMOGing:
--AMOGing is your "Break in Case of Emergency" axe to hack down your enemies--which your classmates are NOT (if you work in a way that let's them be cool!)
--AMOGing's to be used when they're clearly working against your purpose--when, even if you do what I'm about to describe, they still rail against you and attempt to make you look stupid
--AMOGing should be used ONLY after you do this:
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What You Really Want to Do with High School
----Practice the fundamentals of what you've learned, via: strong, confident body language (awesome posture, spine erect, shoulders out); funny stories (if you're good at them); holding a strong set of beliefs (i.e. You're fucking awesome)
----Make others feel the following to the best of your ability (esp. the other members of the group):
Certainty that what you're doing will lead to pleasure;
Variety in that you're discussing something cool and different; Significance/Importance in that YOU, this insanely cool guy, is ACTUALLY talking to them!;
Love & Connection, make them feel involved ("Like a tree in the wind");
Growth, in that you teach them something interesting or valuable while you talk with them;
Contribution, in that you allow others to minor small tasks for the sake of your group--or allow them to contribute to the conversation--or you allow them to do something cool for the group
These are called "The Six Human Needs" - with credit to Tony Robbins.
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Other Factors:
High School is different from a club is different from a mall is different from a street. Follow me? This isn't EXACTLY like the game (though you'll notice it is SO true if you look at your high school lobby!).
You need to deal with things like "reputation" and friends. You can lone dog it, but you'll be MUCH better off if you go to high school with the sole objective to fulfill the needs described above in a manner that leaves you high status.
Do you see where AMOGing'll get you (if abused) while in school?
The best form of AMOGing is making even MORE people feel awesome (in the form of those six human needs) than the people you're up "against"
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Major Action Steps:
1. First, notice your "bitch butterflies" (Simple PU) at the beginning of the day, and tell them to "Fuck off"
2. Make it your objective to talk with at least five people AS SOON AS YOU WALK IN--aim to talk with the highest status people you see (Source: David DeAngelo in Approaching Women)
3. See if you can find a copy of How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling by Frank Bettger in the library - read the first chapter
4. Fill your six human needs YOURSELF - the most powerful way being giving others what they need
5. Help others fill their needs! Watch your popularity explode!
6. Be open to invitations out! These people who you consider AMOGs could be someone you hang out with from now on! (Source: Any PUA literature)
7. Better yet, figure out a way to have other people over to YOUR place. Run game with people. Make them feel included at a party you have (Source: Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss)
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For More Information:
There are HUNDREDS of books that you could use to explode your level of success. Maybe you've already read them (let's do it!). MUST-READS/SEES for your absolute, ridiculous level of success is:
Master-Key to Riches by Napoleon Hill (T&GR, too)
The Game
Advanced Dating Techniques by David DeAngelo (if you have the money)
How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling by Frank Bettger
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