| Things to pick up from this report:
- The huge power of hidden physical escalation
- Understanding a bit of female psychology in LMR better
I was out with a large group of, perhaps 10, guys and 1 girl. We'd split up into perhaps 3 groups. I was chatting to several of the guys when I notice that 2 of my mates are trying to open a 5 set behind me. The 5 girls are all sat in a C shaped circle and both mates have wedged themselves in the gap in the circle. My mate is running his favourite routine that's quite a long mind reading piece. In my opinion, he's playing the part of dancing monkey, but hey, he's gets more success than anyone I know so who'm I to judge?
I'm a firm believer that you want to split up groups of girls so instead of wedging myself in the gap with my two mates, I squeeze in the only other available gap that's nearly opposite. The circle now goes wing1, wing2, HB1, zebra, HB2, HB3, HB4, HB5. I engage the girls either side of me.
When I come in, the girls I'm next to (HB1&2) are not impressed by his routine. I turn things sexual very quickly by opening with something like:
"He makes up for being really rubbish at chatting up girls by being able to give 6 hour orgasms. Have you ever had a 6 hour orgasm?"
You can actually turn this comical if you mis-calibrate and need to back off being sexual. When the conversation about plausibility of 6 hour orgasms dries up, I move to something non-sexual.
Shortly after, HB2, 3 & 5 get up to go to the toilet. I move over to HB3's seat so that I divide the group better when they come back. I introduce myself to HB4 and notice that she's smoking hot.
After fluff talking natural stuff, I move my knee so that it's touching her's under the table. She initially moves her knee away then moves it back in contact. IOI numbers 1-3 right there.
I have a target; the game is on!
Her friends come back from the toilet. My hand goes to her knee and starts doing the orgasm move*. I fluff chat to the right about mundane stuff like how they're finding town etc. She's sat to my left and I give her no verbal attention at all. I have made sure that none of them can see my hand under the table. She knows this and so is loving it. As the conversation moves further on, my hand slides up her thigh to the limit of where I can go without her friends seeing.
She slides forward in her seat so I can go further.
5 minutes later, the friends I'm talking to declare that they're going dancing. I turn around and talk to the target for the first time in 10 minutes; "you're staying with me". Target girl codes the rest that she's staying with me.
Within seconds of them walking through the doorway, she's started making out with me.
Please note, I did no verbal escalation up to this point; most of what I'd been doing was engaging the entire group while physically escalating. This saves 50% of the time to befriend the group then isolate.
10 minutes later, her friends come back up and announce that they're leaving. Target says she's not.
The instant that they're all out of the door, she jumps into my lap.
Shortly after is where I should have realised that the problems were going to appear. I was visiting town that night and so was sleeping on a friend's sofa. I tell target that we need to go back to hers. She agrees that we need to leave, but never agrees about hers and starts discussing other options. I tell her that there is only one option.
30 minutes of verbal & physical escalation later, she agrees to leave with me. I find a taxi and ask her where we're going. She tells me that she can't remember the address; she's only been in town for 4 days. Her phone's broken so she can't phone anyone either.
We stand near the entrance with her discussing all the logistical issues. She starts grinding my leg. I'm confused, I know that she's turned on. I don't believe that she can't remember where she lives due to the slightly different excuse every time. We go for a walk. I eventually** discover that she's in a 2 bed room and her room mate and the other people in the building are new, ie. she doesn't want the wrong rep at the start.
I'm really not sure how I could have done this differently if I'm honest. Any thoughts?
* At my school, there was a rumour that if you did this move, you could give a girl an orgasm. This is debatable, but it does feel good. Basically, it involves putting all 5 fingertips together in the centre of the knee. You then spread the fingertips in opposite directions while applying a constant force throughout. You do this until the knee meets the palm of your hand then you start again. This move is great because the knee is fairly safe touch zone.
** After leaving the club at 2, we spent the entire night just sat outside talking (and grinding).
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