Problem #1: The Ex
It started off she told me she had a best friend who was her ex, I'm cool with this.
Then it turned out that she had sex with him 5 days before we started talking, I'm cool with this.
Then I find out that it was not just sex with him, but a threesome with him and another dude, Here I started to apply the breaks.
Then the car that is always parked at her place is his, I start to have a wtf moment.
Now I find out that he is on her lease and gives her money. . . This finally begs the question, "Are you still fucking him?"
Thoughts?

Problem #2: The Sex

First we start talking about sex and she is a kinky chick, "Tell me I'm a slut, spank me and can I call you daddy?" to which I reply, "Shut up slut *slap* and tell daddy . . ." I'll save the rest. So awesome start.
Then there is a change after about a week.
She says she wants things, Handcuff me and hurt me. So I establish a safeword and go. Slap on the cuffs and have my way. She flips shit, quivers and cries. Ok, wont do that again.
"Tuck me in, come back in three hours and fuck me". Roger, so I do. Flip her over and she flips out.
I want it rough, thats to rough. Thats to soft. By the end of it she ended up seeming like she just needed a hug
Thoughts?

After all this I am about to walk.

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Want to learn how to talk to a woman. Go out in the woods and pet a wild animal, if you come back with both of your hands, you're in.

I am pretty confident she still fucks her ex boyfriend.
As for the kinky sex, enjoy the ride.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

Propose.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

I agree with the ex part, either that or he is the nicest man alive!
Everything about the sex though seems like a trap. We could talk something through completely and she could be totally into some kinky shit. When it happens though she has gone as far as kicking me. I don't get it?

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Want to learn how to talk to a woman. Go out in the woods and pet a wild animal, if you come back with both of your hands, you're in.

I have no hard time believing that "nice guys" (aka AFCs) exist, but usually they don't bang your girlfriend 5 days before you meet her.
If you look carefully enough, you will find the guy's underwear in the chick's closet, I am sure.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

Lol he is no AFC I know this for sure. She got pissed when I brought it up and offered her cellphone to me. There I found a picture of her snatch and his reply was "I miss your secretions", which yet again got a WTF response.

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Want to learn how to talk to a woman. Go out in the woods and pet a wild animal, if you come back with both of your hands, you're in.

i'd be dumping her for that reason alone, no arguements or nothing, just me getting the hell out of there

It's done. I found out now she is working in a dungeon getting beat for a living. The things you find out about people.

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Want to learn how to talk to a woman. Go out in the woods and pet a wild animal, if you come back with both of your hands, you're in.

this chick is a total slut

you need to sodomize her weekly

that's it

wrap it too

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I did, Daily.

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Want to learn how to talk to a woman. Go out in the woods and pet a wild animal, if you come back with both of your hands, you're in.

Damn she's damaged. If I was you, I would have one final talk before dumping her. I would try to figure out what in her life made her this way that she may repress. Maybe she got raped or had family issues when young. I would try to give her some good life advince and maybe open her eyes. At the very least, even if she walks down that path, she had a choice to change, but that's just me.

Very respectable and I did, she has had a rough past and it did do a lot of damage to her. Now she is just doing it to herself. I asked her why not get a job at McDonalds as a manager to hold her over till she found something better and she said it was humiliating. . . This girl is fubar, its her lesson to learn now.

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Want to learn how to talk to a woman. Go out in the woods and pet a wild animal, if you come back with both of your hands, you're in.

Bail budy....she banging her ex or still has feelings, don't be naive. Pussy can blind you, don't let that happen!

If a girl is really close with her ex, just abort.