Hi everyone. I'm totally new to this forum and posting but basically, i've been intrigued by direct day game for the past few weeks and am fed up with not trying it!

A little background. I'm 22, currently in my last semester in college. I have an athletic build and have had several girlfriends in the past. I get looks all the time too, one or 2 double takes a day on the way to class. Lately though, i've been in a funk. I go to a huge school so there are hot girls everywhere...I WANT TO START TAKING ADVANTAGE! I've been reading up on day game and understand the basic principles...been trying to work up the courage to try a direct approach for the past few days.

Then today, I saw one of the top 5 hottest girls i've ever seen walking towards me. On a scale from 1-10, she was an 11...everything she walked past was fucking melting! But...I didn't say anything, DAMN IT! I can't believe I blew that opportunity. I don't ever want that to happen again.

So, i've decided to really commit to making 2-3 direct approaches per day. I'm scared shitless but I can't stand it when I don't act on something I want. I'm going to keep a record of everything so I can track my progress.

Quick newbie mission for you. On your way to class, or when you're travelling through campus, greet everybody. say hello, at very least eye contact and a head nod. But greet, and acknowledge everyone you pass.

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Thanks Jeste...for the past 2 days i've been following your advice and you'd be amazed at how many people don't say 'hi' back! I mean, it's ridiculous...who wouldn't say hi LOL? Anyway, I definitely feel more comfortable with talking to randos.

However...still a bit of a fail on the direct approaches. I keep seeing girls i'd like to approach but Im still hesitant to pull the trigger! It just seems really intimidating...i guess that will go away with time? Anyone have any advice for my first approach?

All right... AA is standard. Some good people wrote, effectively, "Approach anxiety never really goes away." Some of the best advice I've seen (wish I could give credit but I don't remember the author) is: Change that in your head to approach excitement. You're just excited to approach.

For me, the more important thing to remember is that you'll never see that person again. Ever. This doesn't apply to the girl in your class (you've got to handle those differently), but for every standard day and night game target -> it really doesn't matter. I promise that you'll remember the rejections more positively than the times you didn't try. Promise.

And it IS exciting! The anxiety lessens the more I approach, but there is always the fear of the unknown. But you know what? That is part of the fun of it.

Bottom line though is getting out there. If I were you I would start off more indirect, this was my starting point. Not being able to do a direct approach on the hottest girl you've seen that year is pretty understandable when you've had zero practice. You need to be patient. Get out there, ask for directions, ask for the time, anything to get you off the ground. Be patient.

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a girl's more likely to forgive you for being a man, than being a pussy