I was out in a nightclub recently, was having a good time and there was an older woman in the group. She told me that I scared her and that I had an "uncomfortable presence".

That screwed me up for the whole night. I've been told I'm good looking, and I always get girls checking me out which is nice, I'm grateful for that. But I have noticed, to be honest, many of my approaches have gone cold. Or I'd get tonnes of IOI's then they go cold on the approach.

Me and my friend the other day were talking to two hot girls and we managed to get them back to my apartment, but on the way there they said stuff like "how do we know you're not going to kill us?" and stuff. They got to my apartment and after about 15 minutes they left because one of them said something about her boyfriend is going calling her (probably b.s.)

I don't understand it, because I'm a good guy (not a "nice guy"!) but I don't have any bad intentions, and I have been very successful with women in the past but I've been through quite a dry spell recently.

You might be reading too much into it. It's healthy to take criticism, but you want to be sure that you're not (a) reading too much into the second incident, (b) taking the opinion of some cougar way too seriously. Cougars get sketched out pretty easily, mostly because they're married, or insecure about being there in the first place.

dude dont listen to vcwriter, a girl wouldn say that if she didn mean it plus by how the second story went, they had the same feeling too. I think what vcwriter ment to say is dont let it get you down which I agree with but I say instead of ignoring it, learn from it so this wont happen ever again. anyways what exactly did you say and how did the interection go? im goin to need more detail

calm down, very fact that your sarging means your breaking social norms.

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1 reaction from a negative person is too small a sample size to even bother about.

Forget it and move on.