| I met a HB8.5 I at a bus stop. The buses where no longer avalable at the time and I took her back to her place,without K-Closing or anything, just chatting. I felt a lot of chemistry between us and the fact that she asked my phone number first was encouraging. During that time i managed to build rapport and was quite sure that i had great chances with her.
I texted her after a couple of days to meet up and she said she couldnt make it,cause she was at a beach. After 3 days i texted her again and got no response. Waited around 30 hours and sent her another sms, this time HUGE, but had all the right ingredients to rebuild attraction. After some minutes she answers back saying she was at her parents house and had no signal and that she would arrange a date when she came back. I can smell flaky girls from miles away and gave up texting her. And ofcourse she never texted back.
So after more than a month and a half,15 of August (which in greece is her name day) I wished her well and said I hoped this was the most unexpected message she received that day. After exactly two texts she invited me at her place. I was thrilled, cause while this was THE MOST unexpected sex I'd have this summer. So I went there,grabbed two chairs and went on the roof of her building. She told me the reason she couldnt see me before was she had a boyfriend. And yeah,she was still with him,only he was holidaying at an island.
I played my cards right and it only took 40 minutes to escalate to the point I was fucking her in every imaginable position on a roof. After that we went down at her place and continued having sex with her dog checking out on us. We slept together and when we woke up had a coffee. She even walked with me back to my appartment. So i kiss her for goodbuy and say I'd like to see her the same day.
Normally after sex, I leave some days without interaction, in order to play with their insecurity. But because of the fact she was with another guy and everything happened too fast, I had to ensure "connection" as soon as possible. So I called her on the evening and arranged to meet at my place after 3 days or so. She agreed,but when the time came she found a ridiculous excuse to cancel at the last minute. Same shit,different myth the day after. I keeped my cool and told her that if she does this next time I'll never talk to her again(not in a serious manner). She tried to convince me that she was thinking of me all day long and that she had to see me the next day no matter what.
Problem was, I was leaving town for two days to fuck another girl and I couldn't make it.The same day I got back she phoned me and asked me if I went there for such a reason. I answered yes(cause I was caught offguard and wasn't in the mood to lie). According to her words (can you ever believe what a flake says?) that made her sad. I said that we had nothing serious yet, so that shouldn't affect her in any way and that if we would meet earlier I wouldn't do this. She replies with a sms saying that this is a very stressful period of her life and that she has to focus on her exams,cause she only has 5 courses to finish her studies, so we better take it slow.
Since then we have talked around 10 hours on the phone and only meet one other time (20 days period). She flaked on me another 4 times! The most recent one was at her own appartment(I'm pretty sure she was inside and didn't open). I told her that if she doesnt respect my time it means she doesnt respect me as a person and never talked with her again. She tried to apologise and told me that she broke up.
It's been 3 days without communication and I don't know how to turn this in my favour.I know I shouldn't deal with this kind of persons,but it's a matter of self respect and so much time and thinking invested to no avail...
Guys I really like this girl, so tell me which moves will spark her interest and when to make em.
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