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i dont know where to start either, all the guys that seem to do vids on them picking girls up seem to be tall and good looking
go to a mall, chill there for one day, just spend a good 6 hours there or w/e, don't do shit, just look at couples that go shopping there together, find the guys who are specifically fatter then you, and uglier then you, and are with girls
just go do it for a bit so you can actually realize, it's bullshit, tons of girls will take some dick just because it's easy and they want casual sex, there are a fuck load of reasons a girl can reject you, there are also a fuck load of reasons she would sleep with you too
some girls will dismiss you cause of you're not tall enough, some will dismiss you cause you're brown, some will dismiss you because you don't own a house, some will dismiss you cause of your posture, some will dismiss you cause of your body fat %, some will dismiss you cause they don't like your shoes, some will dismiss you cause they don't like your voice, some will dismiss you cause they don't think you're cool, some will dismiss you cause they don't think you have money and they want that, some will dismiss you cause they have a boyfriend, some will dismiss you cause they are in a bad mood, some will dismiss you cause you're too old, some will dismiss you cause you're too young, some will dismiss you cause you don't share the same politial views, some will dismiss you cause you don't share the same religious views, some will dismiss you cause you agree to much, some will dismiss you cause they are gay, some will dismiss you cause you were too rude, some will dismiss you cause you were too polite, some will dismiss you cause their friends don't like you, some will dismiss you cause they recently got abused by a guy or something and are sworn off men, some will dismiss you cause they are too busy at that time, some will dismiss you cause it's a girls night out, some will dismiss you cause people are watching, some will dismiss you cause they think it's weird that you just randomly came up to talk to them, some will dismiss you cause you forgot to shower or get a hair cut, some will dismiss you cause you took things too fast, some will dismiss you cause you took things to slow, some will dismiss you cause you care too much, some will dismiss you cause you don't care enough, some will dismiss you cause you seem like a pussy, some will dismiss you cause you seem too serious, some will dismiss you cause you seem not serious enough, some will dismiss you cause you seem intimidating... the list seriously goes on and on and on and on
all girls are different man, one thing is constant, if you don't meet women and try to sleep with them, you won't get laid... there are a million reasons why you could get rejected, your brain will always tell you that you aren't good enough when you have low self esteem, even if you were to tommorow wake up with glistening 6pack abs and a massive chest, you would probably find another reason in your head why you weren't good enough, but if you give a fuck about it, then you are automatically getting yourself rejected by default, that girl that you could have talked to, but didn't, isn't going to fuck you, that girl you could have made out with, but never tried, isn't going to make out with you, there will always be girls that are quite willing to sleep with you, girls that are not willing to sleep with you, and girls that are not sure about sleeping with you, pretty much no matter what your situation is in life, if you have a penis, there will be girls out there who would be happy to use it
just because a girl dismisses you, does that change who you are?, if some girl calls you gay, does that make you gay cause she said so?, if some girl says you're the hottest man on earth, does that make it so?, if some girl tells you you have the best sense of style she's ever seen, does that make it true?, if she says you're ugly and no girl could like you, does that make it so?, what matters?, what some random girl you don't know thinks of you, or what you think of you?, get your head straight man, you're a guy, you have a dick, girls love dicks, they just hate to admitt it cause that would make them look easy, go out and try to use your little buddy that lives in your pants, he will appreciate you helping him escape into a nice cave from the never ending beatings your hands are probably giving him
you will fail 100% of the time you don't try, no matter what, you will be rejected, I guarentee you, if brad pitt started doing some cold approach, he would get rejected, just get over it, go out, get rejected until it doesn't bother you, do it on purpose, you are good looking, it's all in your head, girls are way more picky then that, if they weren't then every guy who was good looking would be swimming in pussy, but guess what dude... they aren't, even the best pua's go out with them and see how many girls they sleep with, every one they talk to?, not even fucking close, and you show me a guy who says he can cold approach (just approach any girl without getting an AI or anything) and sleep with more then 50% of the girls he opens, I'll show you a liar, even those promos are a big giant farce, almost all of them show guys getting phone numbers, you know how easy it is to get a phone number?, not very hard and they don't mean anything, doesn't mean that guy is fucking the girl, and you can easily edit your rejections out of your videos
put yourself out there man, get over your fears, it isn't your looks, just meet more girls, develop a belief in yourself, look for what you want, and keep searching until you find it, you will get better at looking for it and become more efficent at getting shit done, focus on getting laid, not on a specific girl, not on that ''success rate'', not on avoiding rejection, focus on getting success, nothing else, as many approaches as it takes to learn something, and pay attention to what is happening, keep approaching till you can effectively communicate with women, keep approaching until you get laid... or die trying
GOOD LUCK
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