I went on POF and opened a girl with.

Me: Hey, i would remove that picture from your profile.

Her:Y

Me: lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you were adorable , I just had to say hi
I'm MY NAME

Her: This makes no sense!!!!

Me: what would make sense then?

Me: is it still, not making an sense?

and then the conversation went cold. how can i redeem myself from this?

The thing is with POF every girl is on there to meet people. So to open with something cheeky to gain her attention may not be as much as an issue as it would it a bar where they are sick of the same AFCs approaching her.

The best way to go could be not to game her as much online, try and find a common ground of hobbies etc and until you both agree to meet up and do one of these things together, then its time to game the hell out of her!!

For now just concentrate on DHV and avoid closed questions, use statements to invite her to talk about herself until you find something you want to do with her.

Once you meet then initiate games such as the cube and DHV topics on a date to make sure she never forgets meeting you and is coming back for more.

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Yours in Sarging,

Sparkie