I did something similar. Decided I needed some time to "find myself", so I called off the relationship. I never regretted it once, but she had issues, unlike what your girl sounds like on paper. My out was that I told her that in six months, we would meet up at a specific place and time and see where we were at.

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Come to think of it, I completely forgot, and never saw her again. Probably for the best.



But real talk: If she really doesn't have any flaws, you don't want to throw her away. But my guess is she does, and you may just not be seeing it. Is she really all you want your future to be? Really? Given the opportunity, there's nothing you would change? Wouldn't make her hotter, change some aspect of her personality? Because I guarantee you, with literally billions of women on the planet, there are probably thousands that fit your EXACT "perfect profile".

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I have pretty much the same case, except much worse... My gf is in Sweden. We talk to each other on SPAM pretty much every day and she's a great girl, except she's far. Last time we were together was 3 months ago for 2 months. I can't tell you whether or not to break-up with her, but whatever decision you make, stick to it and believe it's the right one. It's not fair to her for you to be doubting all the time and it's inefficient for you to dwell over it too much.

I agree, it's just so hard to break up with someone when it's going well, especially when the girl is super attached to you.


There are definitely things i'd change, she could look different and TBH her personality doesn't match mine and isn't ideal.

bump

Look, woman can be fickle. Its all good now but if you back off in any way shes gone. Just what Ive learned. Also, look at it from this point of view. When I was 19ish I had all kinds of girls that would act like this. As you age its harder and harder to find... its not cause its rare. Its cause as people age they get hurt over and over again. Im not the flower giving sweetheart that takes girls out and treats them like royalty. Why? Because too many have broke me to the point I just dont care to act like that. Plus, it doesnt keep the girl in the long run. Shes special man, but so are the other 3.5 billion woman in the world. Trust me, youll regret this later if you dont enjoy your college years. I say walk, reread your first post.... even you are thinking this way!

It's like this.

I love Mountain Dew. It's awesome. It's my drink of choice. But every once in a while I like to mix it up with Pepsi, Dr Pepper, Sprite, etc. But I always come back to Mnt Dew. But if I was forced to only drink Mnt Dew for the rest of my life I would grow bored with it and want Pepsi even more.

See what I did there? Why limit your options. Have both

This statement is not congruent with your OP! You stated that "She would do anything for me sexually"!!!

I will go out on a limb and say that 50%+ of girls will have a threesome if you approach it correctly (especially girls 30yo and younger).


Peace...

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Good point of view my friend.

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On the reverse side, she could say she wants a threesome with another guy or to sleep with another guy without me and i'm not down for that. I don't see how you can change your point of view about a relationship about 8 months of monogamy

First off, this is a little late on the response. I have had those nights where I question if it was the right decision but, I have never wished I could take back breaking up with her.

It was the right decision in my honest opinion and wouldn't be where I am 6 months if I was still dating her at this time. I have met a lot of new people and even got a new job, which would not have happened had I not broken if off at the time I did.

Having the same dilemma with the OP. So what happened?

Just be honest with her and suggest an open relationship. Chances are she will say yes or no, but it'd be better for both parties to not living in a lie. Human is flawed, we wary about every decision we made. If she has been a great girlfriend like you described, she would be quite understanding on the subject.

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College social life is highly overrated. If I could turn back the time I would just focus on my studies. It is actually the only time in your life that you have absolute control of your future.

Go break up from the girl so you don't lead her on. But make sure that the only number you increase is your marks.

If she was the one you wouldn't feel the need to leave her anyway.

No matter how great this girl is, you don't seem interested in monogamy and I don't see how you'll find the satisfaction that you're looking for until either one of you changes his/her outlook.

Either you've to come to terms with satisfying yourself in a monogamous relationship or she has to accept being in an open relationship with you.

If while being with her she expects that you just want to be with her but you actually don't, it's not fair to her.

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