There is a reason why each of us are on this forum right now- it's because we love women. Personally? I love everything about women; their insecurities and imperfections, and their perfections. Anyways, a little bit about myself first. I am a Junior in college right now with an extensive social network across all of campus. What is interesting about college is that I have found PUA stuff DOES NOT WORK. It just doesn't, mainly because random hookups risk a girl's reputation with her friends and others. Instead in college, you get success by networking and basically being the man. In most cases, girls have to know who you are first and must have heard GOOD things about you. Keep this in mind as well- I am a decent looking guy, but not necessarily "hot as hell" or whatever. I have been told time and time again that what is most attractive about me is the very unique manner in which I carry myself. I have been told that I stand out in any crowd i'm in, and that many people talk about me. The incredible thing is? It can be learned through observation and self-understanding, and of course through some guidance

There are always exceptions to the college social proof rule.. like when a filthy hot girl is visiting campus for a weekend

Background
The roommates and I decide to start pregaming a few hours before we plan on going out. In my college town there are over 90 bars in a small area we call "downtown". It's party central. I get on my phone and start mass texting all the girls/cool guys i'm close with to come pregame. In about 30 mins, I get several "meet me downtown" replies and other flat out "no" replies. Cool, I guess the pregame will have to be a sausage fest. Me and the roommates put on some funny music and get drunk while having a great time. Roommate 1 bets me I will not do anything with a girl that night. I bet him that he won't make it past 6 beers. The fun goes on until it's time.

Downtown was crazy. We got more drunk, went around to different bars, shamelessly flirted with strippers visiting town, and almost got roommate 2 with a fat girl.

Somewhere during all this, a group of sexy girls told us to go barhop with them so we did. We ended up at this upstairs type bar that had a dance floor.

Me- "Ladies, ladies. Tequila and bad decisions?"

Girls in group- "DUUUUHHHH" "OMGG IM SO DRUNK" and so on..

They started boring me so I started to walk around with roommate 1 until I found a group of 2 girls and one guy sitting down in the corner doing NOTHING. The hotter one was a 5ft 6 brunette, green eyes and a very nice body. You know, 34C bra and an incredible ass. She had something about her that was just so sexy, maybe it was how feminine she was. The second one was White/Asian, and also hot though not as hot as the first one. I go up to the brunette:

Me- "You girls have GOT TO BE kidding me right now. All these people having fun and you're on your phone? Stand up! Come on lets dance "

She didn't have time to reply to what I was saying, and I kept a smile the whole time I was talking. The two girls started giggling and naturally my two roommates went in and talked to the girl and her boyfriend. The hotter of the two was the single one, and I didn't waste any time in taking her to the dance floor, hand in hand.

Before you know it, i'm making out with one of the best kissers/dancers ive ever met. Like seriously, we were dirty dancing and making out for 30 minutes and I was completely fine with it. My hands were going everywhere and so were hers. Apparently we made a scene because once we were done people left and right were giving me high fives, acknowledgement nods, and blank stares. Like, who is that guy.

One thing I love about women is that look on their face when they are lip-locked with me. The look in their eyes of just pure love and bliss. During the makeout I quickly opened my eyes to see this girl in a trance like state with every kiss. From my experience, this usually meant I was IN.

As I walked out with her, her friend and the other guy stopped us. I gave them some distance. I overhear:

Hookup- "It's okay, i'll only be gone for like 5 minutes!" (hahaha yeah right)

and

Hookup- "I think he's going to be a lot of fun!" (yeah, duh!)

Finally, the second girl comes up to me mad and says "You better take care of her" and then storms off. Hookup girl and I laugh it off and walk to my place.

The rest is history gentlemen. She was a nymphomaniac and we literally f**ked till the sun came up. This all happened so quickly that 1- I never got her name, and 2- I didn't even see what happened with my roommates.



Some Takeaways
- No phase shifts, no PUA, nothing. The only thing going through my mind was "Oh, they look fun! let me go talk to them" and "Oh she is so hot, I want to make out with her more". There was no thought on approach, there DOESN'T NEED TO BE.
- I was being completely natural.
- I was being natural
- In case you didn't get that last one, I was being natural.


The incredible thing is, I walked into this bar again 2 nights ago and a few girls must have recognized me from that night. They came up to me and talked to me! It's all about that social proof in the end.

Many more lay reports to come. Through 2 years of intense trial and error, I can say that I have finally mastered college game. Questions/comments/whatever, shoot away!

What's the best way to network in college? In class? Do you ask the girls questions or something? Are you always initiating the contact?

probably different for every one, but what I do is just join groups and clubs for activities you're into to meet people, and above all PARTICIPATE IN CLASS. I know there's a high school stigma associated with answering questions and getting involved in a discussion with the professor, but making intelligent and witty comments does raise your value quite a bit.

College game is little different than any others. It's more about your social circle. If you've got a great social circle than more girls are going to want to know you and in the end like onyx found out, getting laid. That's why you have found that the pua stuff doesn't really work a worth lot in college, other than text and phone game with it.

Peace,
SikGun

It's true that your social circle is probably the best way to score in college. But that works for the same reason that cold approaches in a bar works. College is a target rich environment. You're going to see girls in class all semester. You're going to run into them at parties, the coffee shop, etc, etc. So take advantage of it, and develop your social circle as much as you can.

Great story Onyx, and great way to relate how natural game can really work. I think you made a lot of great points.

I think you ARE using all the subtle and subconscious PUA stuff. Your point about carrying yourself so well that you always stand out is awesome. That inspires me to get out of my head and focus on my posture when I'm chatting up a girl. Do you have any mantras or things you think while you're in field to maintain this state?

Dude, and looking at her face while you're making out? That's brilliant, I'm going to do that on my next date.

sick bro.... gotta tear it up in college. 30min is really solid

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Naturally. In class if I find someone cool, i'll sit next to them and start conversation. Conversation will usually shift to "what are you doing this weekend?" or something along the lines. I'll usually tell girls and guys- "Bring your friends and i'll bring mine".

Most of my networking comes from downtown and the nightlife. From girls I get numbers from, hookups, and of course cool dudes I meet as well.

One thing I found to work well in college is to carry yourself like you're part of something bigger, IE the social scene. When you meet someone new, tell them you haven't seen them before and introduce yourself.

It all boils down to confidence. College game has no place for the shy.. and when you get good at it it's a lot of fun

I am subconsciously incorporating PUA, yes. but on a very limited scale. Mainly it's push pull, taking up space, speaking in a clear voice with eye contact, touching when the situation permits, and being completely natural and un-forced in any interaction i'm in.

To keep the composure? LESS thinking and MORE doing. Seriously simple right? Try it in practice and see how effective that one piece of advice can be. When you're "in the field" you have to be engrossed in the conversation you're in with the girl and not be thinking about anything else. Be witty, be funny, have fun yourself, and most importantly have an end game. If she seems interested, whisper in her ear that she's the sexiest dork you've ever met. If she's not interested, cut your losses, DON'T BE CREEPY, and move on. Haha that last part, so many people just get it wrong!

Once you realize that game has its limits, and there is no such thing as 100% success, then that's when you start getting results with women.

- Onyx

Just curious, how old are you?

20 years young, my friend.

Why?

you are very good. remind me of myself. just curious also where are you located?

I can't share that

Boss... great LR