Im wondering if anyone knew an effective way to leave a conversation where she has to start the next conversation.


For example...

I heard a story about you, but I'll tell you later and you leave...


But what im trying to get at is, ive heard the analogy where the cat is only interested in the ball of string when its dangling above its head, not on the ground.

What im trying to do with 2 girls on online chat (Fb) is, trying to build up excitement and then just bail all of a sudden, but im having trouble ending it.

Is there any PUA out there that can give me advice on this topic...

Interesting concept. I would imagine it depends on the girl and your current relationship with them.

I'm gonna give this a whirl and I'll let you know.

if you want a girl to initiate on you, the best way is simply leave on a high note and do a take away, so basically, have a good interaction, not just say one thing at the end of it and expect she wants to invest because of that,

bring value, make her love your attention and want more of it, then cut the interaction off and don't contact her

but realistically you are the guy, you should be initiating not her, and you shouldn't be initiating to have aimless conversations, call her or text her to get her out, not to chat her up, chat her up in person, do really good, turn her on, put her in a good mood, hit on her, get to know her and she will want more of that

don't show interest, be boring, suck shit, don't get to know her, then say, I heard a story about you, but I'll tell you later, chances are if you do this, she won't try to contact you, now OTOH, if you do the good job from the above paragraph and you end with, I heard a story about you, but I'll tell you later, she will be super intrigued, it's all about interest, no interest/no value = she could give a shit less, high interest/high value, she will try to invest, it's not about one thing to say or do, it's about who you are, and everything you say and do, and how and why you do it

Ive only talked to her once, i made the mistake of talking to her for a couple of hours on chat..... the flow was good but Ive run out of ideas... I know shes not gonna make the next move.

Im just thinking of a quick fun routine, I can play on her that will demonstrate high value and interest and then leave her. If she takes the bait, it will be good but if she doesnt i guess I will flag her and move on to the next.

Any ideas/thoughts,

Much appreciated

Max

wait one week until you next contact her, then have a breif fun convo, try to keep it relatively short to just touch base with her, keep is casual, no serious details or anything just flirt around, get her interested in the convo, then when she is loving it, tell her, ''I gtg''

then wait another week and repeat, keep doing this, one day a week, until she starts to contact you, or until she stops responding, if she stops responding you know your actual conversation skills need work

but don't try to make this happen right now, be patient, meet other girls to keep yourself busy, one time a week initiated by you maximum and don't build too much rapport, just make your goal to put yourself in a good mood, then share your good mood with her, then when she's in a good mood, get out, rinse and repeat until she craves that good mood

GOOD LUCK