Hey guys!

So I've started doing some day game recently. And there's this chinese girl that I've met that just arrived in Montreal to studie. So we chat a bit about China and, well you know, the usuel. And when I tell her that I'm a musician she's like : whoa, that's so cool. So I tell her that I'd be very interested in earing what kind of music plays in china right know. So when it comes to close the set, that's what I tell her:

Tell you what, give me you're phone and e-mail and this way you could send me 4 different songs of china that you listen too and I'll send you 4 songs of Canadian artist.

And that's a winner!

So she's sent me her songs... (fucking horrible music by the way hahaha) And i sent her mine plus a text right after saying :

Just sent you my music check it out. But I wanted to let you know that there's a great music show tonight, you should come

And that's what she respond :

Hi, I won't have access to internet for the next days since I'm moving, what a pity. But I will listen to you're music as soon as possible. It must be very cool

So ok great! She'll listen to the music I've sent her hahaha! Still doesn't tell me if she wants to come to the show!

Advices?!

She doesn't want to go to the show. Move on to the next one. She may get back to you, she may not.

You seem to have been stuck on an exchange of information but it doesn't look like you've built any attraction. It seems like you opened her well and got a number.

1) How old is she?

2) How long has she been in the country?

3) Has she lived far away from home before.

The reason she might not want to go with you is because its a new country and she doesn't want to take big risks yet. If you want to f-close then your gonna have to built a little bit of trust between you and her.

So I thinks she's like 22 years old, just got here in Montreal doing a master degree. And like you said Bitmixit. It's true I haven't really built attraction with her. I've made it look more like a casual encounter.