I live in a town that has the label "dirty Daytona". Apparently there is a lot of really disgusting girls and even those decent girls likely got with a guy that has been around.

So how can I go down on a girl if I worry about getting something from her. Lets face it with no car, money, or a particlular lifestyle I'm not gonna get a early 20s 8 or better that has her stuff together and that stuff takes time. Those other girls carry a risk. Being that if I ever hooked up I would probably last a minute. Can I just say give me 20 minutes and I'll last longer? Or do i use dental dams, which might seem tacky for a hookup with some skank? I'm even considering not wanting a BJ from these girls.

I'm a late bloomer. I am also a virgin........at 31. So I really don't know how long i will last. When I pressure m sometimes I last about a minute and I do this to thoughts of talking about sex with girls saying they need a pounding, visual blowjobs and the act of intercourse. Usually the dirty talking thoughts get me to cum quick. I don't know when I would bust with a girl.