I'm sitting at a coffee shop and this HB8 sits down near me. Plugging away I glance over several times (4-5) for about a second, and notice no eye contact. So I turn back and plug way on my laptop. I decided to open her 5 minutes later, telling her my phone is due for an upgrade, old blackberry, and asked her to talk about her iPhone. We talk for a minute, about our phones, I said "thank you," smiled and went back to working. 15 seconds later she leaves.

Honestly, mentally, I just wanted to know more about the iPhone. Yeah she was cute, but in 'retrospect reflection mode' I was more proud of opening her with some old dude in front of me than of her looks. There was no kino during conversation - she just smiled here and there like all girls do. Thoughts/ideas to transition to a number close?

Good try I say, a couple things though..

Being that I'm pretty new to the whole PUA thing take this with a grain of salt

You said you talked about your phones for the whole conversation correct? Idk about you but I always try to isolate a woman from their mobile mindset, in my experience they use the phone like a reason to not pay attention to you and what you're saying fully.

Secondly if it were me I would have shitted on her IPhone immediately «in a joking way of course» by saying something like its cool and all but apple is so played out, this neg would have took some of that "omg this guy is hitting on me" pressure off of her. I feel like she left so quickly because of that vibe, remember attraction before qualification. Happy gaming[/quote]

Well ask to see her phone then ask her how it works. Then dial you # in it and call yourself and say. "Oh look now you can call or text me any time. Maybe the next time your itching to go to starbucks you give me a ring."

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