So I got a date with a girl who is a HB 9.5, maybe even 10. Not even kidding. I started this account just because I don't wanna screw this up.

Anyway, we've been playing phone tag and I've invited her out once. I set a specific lunch date to give her room to politely decline. She did, and I thought I'd give it one more shot and if she said no, I would just let it go as her not being interested.

Well, I invited her again and she said no, but she'd be available later in the week. She said she was free Thursday around the afternoon for some food and drinks, but there are two catches: I'm wondering if I ceded too much power to her by letting her dictate the date schedule (am I being neurotic?), and she said that she has work after, which kinda makes F-Close or much else a little more difficult.

Anyway, thanks in advance!

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I think the most important thing here is getting her out with you in-person... so if you can't organise the day-two on your terms, just do it on her terms. Once you meet however, you have the option of false time-constrainting before she has the chance, building comfort and pumping buying temperature, then you can try setting up the next meeting (planting the idea in her head - especially if you want to meet at night). Suggest what nights are good and what places are good.

You don't have to bang or even makeout yet, but of course, there needs to be some kind of physical connection and making it a "man-to-woman" interaction, as opposed to a "friend-to-friend" interaction from the get-go. This can be tricky, but try to remember cold approach fundamentals like eye contact, vocal tonality, kino, humour and sexual framing, etc.

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IMO, you should really try to find a second girl to game. You'll get one-itis this way.