I'm 29. The other day I had an f-close w a chick I met on okcupid. Now, before meeting her we were exchanging sleazy messages and I jerked off not knowing I was going to nail her the next hour.

So when I did go to nail her, I was all limp when we took the clothes off Now this has never ever happened before. I've got hard-ons just thinking about sex and never has this happened when I was in a 8 year old relationship; I've cum twice in a span of 10 minutes several times before. But cos I was limp, it made me even more nervous and totally ruined the alfa-ness I had established while messaging her while on the previous 2 dates. I made her cum pretty good orally and she did too but just couldn't get it hard enough when I was trying to fuck her.

This has kinda screwed up my confidence with my dick that I used to be proud off and keep checking during the day to see if I can get it up or not....damn it!

Has anyone else experienced something like this before? :/ I hope these are not signs of getting old and me smoking is not fucking things up

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rambonot

I've had limp dick once but I just kept foreplaying her till the sick sorted itself out. Girls barely ever complain about longness of foreplay. If they do an start being all "oh god please fuck me" just whisper in her ear "not yet, be patient" with the girls I've shagged gets the proper going.

I could not get it up one time either.

The girl was hairy and smelly.

Very Horrible. YUK.

I never even considered it my fault.

I had the same thing happen to me recently, but my lack of arousal is due to medical problems and withdrawl from chemical dependency. I found myself in bed with a hot girl, but I was having some real trouble becoming fully engorged. I basically just told her the truth, and let her know it wasn't her fault and it was only something that I've just recently had a problem with. We actually were able to get past it and I fucked her twice that night. I just let her know she needed to be patient and work with me, and things ended up being okay.

Limpness can be caused by any number of things, and usually there's a way to get around it. If your dick isn't working at all, then just do oral on her. I've had problems with it before due to a lack of attraction or fatigue and dehydration. It happens. The main thing you want to avoid is coming across as being impotent, which is the cliche guy who "can't get it up". That's certainly not a good luck for a pua.

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