Hello, I'm not sure if this belongs here, but I've met a gril who came from a 5 years LTR with a guy and she has a 2 y'old son. her ex BF treated her like shit, and she ended up with low morale and all that stuf. we've been dating for a month like free:
we kiss, we date we have almost get laid but it just haven't happened. I wan't to make with her a LTR, but she insist she "does not want to get involved so fast again", that "she wants to be free", that she "want's to to what she feels without hurting nobody" and so on.

how should I proceed to get her in a LTR?

thx in advance.

Firstly,don't assume that a girl's ex treated her like shit and that's the reason she has low-self esteem or that's why she broke up.

That's a classic line by women to swindle men into new LTR's.

Dude,take her advice; don't rush to get into an LTR with her.

Que estas haciendo!!?

Nunca inicies el chat sobre relaciones ante de ella jamás!!

She should be the 1 to start the talk about LTR.

Keep things slow and just on a sex level until te parece que ella desea mas realmente.

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Actually I never talked about a LTR to her, I just told her I liked her, and when she said: I don't want a relationship I told her: I just said I like you, not that I wanted a relationship (obviously I do). I continued with your adviced and all its fine thx!, but there's two problems arriving:

1.- I kclosed, and we are constantly dating, and we kiss every time, but I'm having trouble with Fclose because Im afraid that If I tell her to fclose, she will say no just because the fear of losing the relationship we've build just to fuck.
but I also believe its important to Fclose this gril so I can scalate and not fall in time with the Friendzone bullshit. I haven't been able to find the situation that leads to get laid, last night I was close, because we kissed on the car and we started to touch each other and all that stuff, but still we were on the car, waiting for her sister, and she just arrived when we were there. we had to stop

any ideas on how can I get fclose to this girl?

second thing,

2.- In a small talk we had days ago she insisted that "she is confused, and dont want someone just because he treats her well and give her the love she needs, because she knows she needs affection and dont want to feel confused because of that" and then she told me about a guy who was dating after she broke with his ex BF, and she told me that they got laid, she took distance from him, and she said that she didn't liked him and did not wan't anything, but she also saidshe saw him the other day, and she felt something, and she said "she didn't want to be confused by that guy, his ex BF, or me, that she wants to be free"

how can I get she convince herself to get rid of that guy?

hope I explained myself

thx in advance!

I also missed some important information, since she has a two y'old kid, Its hard for her to ask her mother to take care of the kid, so its hard to find moments when we are both alone to get intimate. just fridays and saturdays we are always alone in the car, because she works in a bar, and I go pick her about 2 am, but we always go for her sister who also finish her work at that time, so its possible for me to be alone with here in the car but just for a while before we go get her sister. :S