I met this girl 2.5 months ago. I call and she hardly ever answers, she is more of a texter. She loves it, but it gets me no where. We talk every blue moon and everytime I write her off and I least expect it she calls me. Its usually when her friends are around. Anyway, she called me and invited me out. We met up and I had the venue under control. She hugged me hi and lots of keno including a kiss on the cheek. This girl was literally eating out of my hand. She was out with 4 hb7.7's and 1 fatty, so I assemble some wings to come with me and take up the slack. I know that she was in to me hard core. I would catch her watching me as I talked with other guys and so on. I even played the jealousy card by striking up conversation with another group of ladies next to our group. This drove her wild. I could have k Closed, but she was tipsy and didn't want to give her buyers remorse or loose tension. By the time I left, Her whole group of friends loved me. Even the 359lb Cock block who even with her best attempts could not ice me. Long story short, I can not get this girl out on a date never mind on the phone. I am 28 and she is 23 ish. Seriously, If I can get a date I know that I can hold my own and this girl will melt. I know she has no boy friend and that she wants a piece. I went into comfort deep. Being younger and w/o a job I think she is feeling like she has not much to offer and I feel like making her qualify makes her feel uncomfortable. I suggested hanging out, she said where? I said, You pick time, I pick place! She never really answered me straight. Maybe she is scared? Totally confused.... I need advice. Bil

So exactly how long has it been since you two spoke exactly? It sounds like on that one evening you had things in hand, but things change quickly. If it's been more than month since you saw her last then expect to have to do more work when you see each other again. Secondly, if it's been more than two weeks since you messaged her, then forget about it and move on!

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jsmooth- She called me on wed of this week. We met up and at the end of the night I called to make sure she got home safe. It was a quick call, but I felt that a same night call might work better while the temp is high than a call back 3 days later. I dropped her a call last evening to follow up and no answer. So I just left a posative upbeat message. "It was cool to meet your friends blah blah. " I've tried call backs 2-3 days later with not much luck in other situations. So Now I am trying them sooner and at all hours and times. My texts now are sent without looking for reciprication, but rather just statements. Because, if you put yourself out and you get no response when you were looking for one, Your socail value drops like a rock. What do you think? wildbil

I agree with what you are saying about sending those statements. Call her up and invite her out in a day or two.

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