I don't know if this is the right area to post this but feel free to remove it or delete if you wish.

Anyway let's get to my point which I feel is stoping me from having solid confidence. I don't fear at approaching woman or getting rejected by them as you can only improve if you get shot down.

What I do fear on the other hand is being successful with a woman this scares the shit out off me especially when it comes to sex as I've only got a average size penis (5.5 to 6 icnhes) and have got it into my head that all good looking woman have had bigger just because most guys who have confidence approach these good looking woman and are probably swinging way more than average.

What I want to know is can I still be succesful with good looking woman and PUA with an average size penis? It sounds like a stupid question to ask, but It's holding me back with getting better with woman. you get woman who say "Size doesn't matter" but how many of them are good looking? then you get woman who say "Size matters" I'm not really bothered about my size as I know I can't do anything about it,What is bothering me is getting laughed at and it killing my confidence.

So how many here have a average size penis and are successful at picking up woman has it been a problem when you got to the bed room? Surely, I ain't the only one here worrying about this, can anyone relate to this?

Another thing I'm not a virgin and have only had sex once and even see commented on the size and she's wasn't even good looking but said the sex was good as she was chasing me for more.

I would greatly appreciate your responses would help greatly.

Porn is meant to have a bad influence on men but It's also just as bad on woman who watch it because they all expecct us to then be hung like pornstars.

Best advice ever! But how is that going to help me?

It will help you because in fact you are probably above the average size unlike the porn stars.

It's all BS really and I have always found my size to be dependent on how much the chick tuns me on:)

I am exactly average according to this website (5.5 to 6 inches or 15.24 Centimeters) http://www.everyoneweb.com/worldpenissize/

However, stop watching porn isn't going to solve my problem because I know porn is fake and is not reality and that they are porn stars due to being well endowed.

I have got it into my head that average isn't going to cut it when it comes to beautiful woman, not because I'm comparing myself to porn stars because us guys know that is why they are porn stars because they are well endowed.

I'm a scared of approaching beautiful woman and being successful with them because I've got it into my head that they are all size queens due to what they have seen on porn and rejecting me due to not being well endowed like porn stars.

What I'm asking is what is the chances of a girl rejecting me when it comes to sex due to my average penis size, is it going to stop me being successful with picking up beautiful woman?

Because I'm decent looking so that isn't the problem but Penis Size = Confidence or is this just me who thinks this? There has to be someone on this forum who can relate to me and due to the views this post has got and the actual responses people seem to be reluctant to give advice, so they all must be well endowed.

What use is this forum, If PUA who are succesful aren't willing to give advice/guidance to an AFC?

I know how you feel man.

I've been through this same situation seeing as how mine is the same size. Granted, I went through this when I was in high school. I don't know how old you are, but I'm here to tell you that you have absolutely NOTHING to worry about. I mean c'mon man, you're the same size as the majority of the american population.
I've asked this question to tons of women and the majority of the answers I get is "it's not really that big of a deal, it's more of how turned on I am by their personality/if they can make me laugh/looks good..etc.. but if i had to give an answer, between 5-7 inches." And trust me, this answer is COMPLETELY subjective.

Try and think of it this way. You wouldn't reject a girl if she looked amazing, and was totally cool and easy to talk to, smelled good, and all that stuff, but she just had average boobs, would you?

I know i wouldn't. People come in all shapes and sizes. The 9's and 10's are no different and they are probably even more insecure than the 7 or 8's.

You have to get out of your head here and look at the big picture. Picking up women has nothing to do with her measuring your dick to see if your adequate enough for her. It's about the entire interaction and experience you have together. I could see you worrying if it were down to like 3 or 4 inches hard, but I even know guys in this boat who just don't give a shit and just go out and have fun and work with what they got. Girls respond much better to confidence and guys just being comfortable with themselves.

And I gotta be honest.. I'm a little sick of this 1-10 rating system here. It's convenient to express how hot a girl is, but it puts this girl on a pedestal that she's this uncapturable creature and we have to devise this epic plan of attack to mind fuck her into thinking we are better than we really are.

Just talk to these women as fellow human beings. They're no better or worse than anybody else. They just happen to be extremely hot. I guarantee that once you get to the point of having sex with a "9" or "10" you'll see that you never had anything to worry about to begin with. I think that's the best piece of advice in my entire rant here. Just DO IT and see what happens. You're always going to assume the worst until you actually experience something.

Good luck man!


Cory

At last someone who see's where I'm coming from, thanks for the advice bro appreciate it alot! has made me think alot and now I know I had nothing to really to really worry about.

I'm completly comfortable with my penis size but that same insecurity has always been at the back of my head when it comes to hot girls.

Although, if I'm ever with a girl who has a problem with my penis size, she isn't worth my time and will simple be told to go fuck herself because at the end of the day It's not worth worrying about.

As you said I'm the same size as the majority of the American population and probably the UK so there has to be plenty of PUA out there with average size penis being succesful with woman. It basically all comes down to being confident and comforable with yourself.

Again, thanks alot bro for the decent response.

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Those who push themselves, and are willing to face pain, exhaustion, humiliation, rejection, or worse, are the ones who become champions.

Well if that's the case, I should be fine hopefully

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