Hi

This happened today and I'd really like to hear your thoughts on this.

My GF is such a hottie but she used to be all slim and boney a year ago. I think she looks much better now, that she actually has tits and and ass, she put on a very little weight over the last half a year and I'm so glad for it.

Anyway, she texts me today saying that one of her co-workers, a guy that I also know, just met her on lunch break and said "ohh, you've became kinda fat". So she texts me this and tells that her day is ruined and she has to agree with this unfortunately.

I texted her that she only listens to me and I just love her body, especially when I'm fucking her juicy ass and grabbing her tits. "Don't listen to anyone, only me."

I also added that I'll surely remember this the next time I see this guy and it won't be without consequences.

What's the best reaction for this?
Do I call this guy now and tell him to fuck off?
Should I really address this issue any time later?

Tell the guy to mind his fucking business then continue banging your girl. Simple!

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I meet him like every 2 months in parties sometimes. You think I should call him now or facebook message him?

Well I'm always in favor of communication that isnt text related, so I would say call him. Tell him you dont appreciate what he said to her cause it hurt her feelings etc. and tell him to mind his business..or whatever you feel comfortable saying.

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He isn't worth a phone call or a text. And you're a busy guy, you wouldn't have time for that anyway, right?

Wait til that next party, and when he tries to validate himself to you ("sup bruh?" or whatever chodey thing he passes off as a greeting), say, "Come with me a second."

Take him three feet aside. Tell him you know what he did, it wasn't cool, and not to do it again. It'll take all of five seconds.

Go back to your girl at the party. Have another drink. Enjoy the night.

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you really have two options.

let it go.

or, kill the motherfucker.

lol, i'm kidding, but only kinda.

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You don't really want to confront him, since if you did, you would have just driven to her work and talked to him.

It all depends on the type of man you are; nevertheless, you are a MAN. Resolve your conflicts. Somebody is talking shit to somebody dear to you. Make sure the person apologizes and then has to kiss her ass so he wouldn't have to deal with you.

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Is this seriously your job to do? Your girlfriend needs to learn to step up for herself because the world isn't full of love and hearts.

i would let her deal with it herself cause next time shit happens she expects you to cover it again. i am not a cop and don't need drama in my life.

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I get his point, but in a relationship, I'd deal with this. I like the 5 second conversation next time you see him at a party method suggested by Dr. Jones.

The bonus to dealing with it???? She thinks you're her hero, and likely will do you a couple favors for defending her honor, if you know what I mean.

No need to be dick. Just let the guy know it isn't appreciated and let it go. If he can't handle that like a man, then like Mack says, kill the motherfucker.

J/K.

Damn, this is touchy with girls cause you don't want them to be anorexic. Anyways is this guy an afc? or was he trying to neg her? You gotta decide whats best for you cause if you put in a lot of effort like going out of your way to talk to him for a small comment then it might lower your value. If it's important enough for her and you know she will appreciate it, then it might raise it. Context will determine best course of action. We can't really say just by reading text on the computer on what to do.

going after the guy isn't going to help your girlfriend feel any better

smashing his face won't make her feel better, it will make him feel worse

you need to make her feel better

find a creative way to accomplish this

when i say "smashing his face" i mean literally or figuratively, btw

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