When i started to read this forum i was in a relationship with a girl since 6 years. Than we broke up. I thought it was the end of world.Till i watched in mirror and said to myself "fuck this is not me". That was 3 months ago.
Now i don't talk with her any more, and she is trying to contact me but fuck i started a new life.
The thing is, after this brake-up i started to be more egoist, to care how i look, what i eat, to do sport and other things as much as i can. Because i work 12h/7 with free day only when it's raining (lifeguard).
On the beach i use to make friendship to all people doesn't matter if they are girls, boys or old people.
That's how i found a beautiful girl that was complaining to her girlfriends that she never got orgasm no matter with how many she tried. Lucky me one of her girlfriends is one of my best friend so she told me.
Why don't you try with this one, i know you still hurt from that brake-up.
So i said, wtf i don't have nothing to lose.

So my best friend introduced me and next day i got date. I was planing to tell her stupid things and how beautiful she is till i remember some posts on this forum in which was wrote to not tell her many compliments. So i did one about her dress(that was the only thing that came in my mind). Next thing i found her complaining about different guys that never told a compliment about her appearance.
What kind of men did you met till now? i asked her with a smile.
Then she went in sex thing. That is what i wanted, but at first didn't knew what to do.
That till i remember about some nlp. So i said let's try this shit.
Here is some of what i remember i told her, may be in a different form, but somewhere around this.

"Oh, i know what you mean. IT's like that weird moments when you just lay down and and want that the other one make you really feel grate, true?"
She said
"yes , yes"
Don't know why but i touched her arm, remembered something about anchor.
"i was in that situation to. It's hard to believe, but i was asking to myself when some1 (and pointed to me) will come and make me feel special, and smile, and stay with me after those moments"
yah,she said a little sad.
"but don't worrie, be confident, ok?" and touched her arm
she just nod but i continued. " Someday you will find a cool guy that seems to read your minds and knows what you want."
We reached to a cool place near sea with rocks. Was a perfect place to stop so i said
"let me do you a game"
I did the cube game, and she was amazed so she asked if she can do it to me 2. I said that she can't because i can trick her with my answers "
She smiled and asked me if i know any other games.
" i know many but this is not the proper place to make them"
So i pulled her hand and said let's go to a proper place and touched her arm. Didn't expected her to just fallow me but she did.
We took a my car and went at my house. I turned on my pc, put some music, took a piece of paper and a pen (dunno why but i just took it and left it on the table). I said lay down, and started to do an hypnosis thing to make her release some stress out of her. She said it didn't work so good, so i said turn over i will make you a massage.
Than i started to give a massage and intentionally touch her near breasts, ears , neck than back to breasts and so on. Than i tried to touch her pussy but she rejected me. That's how i remembered about that book that i read "the game" So i restarted and massaged her near breasts down to her bikini line.
So i started once again to touch her but again i got rejected. So i switched to cold mode and started to play...hmm solitare i think. So she came and did a massage 2. Than i turned over and said to her
"let's have a grate night" and touched her arm.
so that's what we did. And she finally got an orgasm for the first time in her life. I didn't knew i am that good at bed, and tbh i don't have a big dick. But i read allot of bocks and was of good use.
I bet she will tell her friends, and i hardly w8 till my e-x will hear that. I never called her since 2.5 months now but i bet she is wondering what i am doing.
The moral thing in this is that you should actually believe in you, read some books, get healthy, and stronger, you can deserve more than the one you lost. And if you want her back, well..there are plenty of books for that 2.

I know many of them will skip to last paragraf, well even if i try to pretend i don't care, i do care and hardly w8 to hear your opinion )