Gaming WITHOUT the added assurance of IOIs

Let me first state that I am still a beginner. I frequent these forums alot and am absorbing as much information as I can. The thing is with me is that I have no problem approaching when I have the added assurance of IOIs. Really, for me it's more of a relief and IOIs does make the approach a bit easier.

The problem arises when you usually get NO Indicators of Interest. Then a beginner like me throws himself into the hot water nevertheless, with the idea that she COULD HAVE given you the signs that you're welcomed in her personal space, but she DIDN'T. When a woman dosnt maintain eye contact with you, or avoids it alltogether, it compounds the fear some guys have. My question is this: How important really, is IOIs in the game and is there a way to TRIGGER IOIs when there was NONE in the beginning? Should a lack of IOIs hold back a guy from making approaches and opening?

Stop looking for IOI's you pussy and approach.

Did I say that I was looking for IOIs to Approach? And do you not have the ability to reply in a more civilized manner? Read my comment again and reply like an adult.

somewhere on this forum, there should be a list of IOI's. If there isnt, they are everything that convey interest.

She stares in your eyes,
doesnt pull hand back when you hold it
Asks your name
Asks anything about you
you stop convo, she continues it
etc.

This entire forum, is actually made in order to find a way to make girls interested in you, in other words, everything written here is either a help to find a way to trigger IOI or a way to do it.

Some good ways to trigger IOI are:

DHV'ing (through storytelling etc)
negging (not hard, has to stay funny, if insulted they wont work)
KINO
good body language
HAVING FUN (this one works for me)

Confidence

Also if you become good at communication, you can make her IOI you more, so also read some books about NLP and humor. 2 good books are: Introducing NLP and Comedy Written Secrets.

Just like you I still have to work on my seduction skills a lot, but having a plan really helps. Just look at the list I gave, and read books or posts about these things. And work on them. And make a plan of how to advance.

My plan now is to become able to consitently kiss close. Once I can do that, I will work on the next step. And then the next. Just look at what you need to work on most now, and do that.

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