What up guys so i just wrote a new blog post on the topic of having your cake and eating too.
Here is the link to the blog post, but i will also be posting it on the forum too.
http://theattractiveu.com/having-your-c ... ng-it-too/
Having Your Cake And Eating It Too!
So yesterday and over the weekend i decided to spend some time with my ex girlfriend. Who is about 10 years older than me. Yeah, pretty awesome. With her own crib and everything. So she invited me over for movie night Friday, and we had a good time. Long story short, i ended up staying the night, and went home Saturday morning.
Here is a little background on the situation. Met her at a party about 3 months ago. We hit it off from the get go, decided to try a relationship a few weeks later. Keep in mind this was within a few weeks in the game. So everything was going well we were taking trips together, spending loads of time with each other. This whole entire time i felt like i was settling. I felt like i deserved to have EXACTLY what i want. She was a HB7.5 with a nice body, but she has TWO kids. So this was the first issue with the kids thing. She was clearly looking for more than i was and i knew things would eventually come to an end because i wanted MORE. I didn’t want to just settle for a girlfriend just to have one. I don’t need validation from women or a relationship as most people do. I get my validation from within, and that’s how it should be. So make a long story short she ended up going through my cell phone a few times and seen text messages(flirty ones) to other girls. She did this twice, after the second time i was ready to break things off. So she ended up agreeing to having an open relationship. At this point i came to a conclusion she was willing to do whatever she could to keep me in her life. So we began our open relationship, and i begin hitting the game HARDER than EVER. As you guys probably noticed through my blog post. I realize what i want to do, and that’s help others become who they want to be. I know how it is making this transformation alone, and it’s not easy. Its take courage, determination and a strong individual. Knowing the lifestyle i wanted and wanted to help other guys achieve, i KNEW this wouldn’t be right for a girlfriend. I’m a guy of dignity i believe in treating women with respect and they same way i would want to be treated. Every guy should have this mentality going into a relationship with a women, if you don’t plan on being faithful make sure she knows this before believing you are faithful when you clearly aren’t.
So this weekend we spend Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday together. We had a great time and got to talk about a lot. She asked me about other girls i was involved with and i was honest with her and told her. It was cool because she was happy with it and the fact i was honest. She is involved with 2 other guys going out on dates, getting free dinner and drinks. haha. I was laughing. She wanted me to validate her about her age, and her being so much older than me. She talked about how she was worried i was embarrassed because of how much older she was then me. So i validated her a little bit and we ended up laying back having drinks, and enjoying a movie together Sunday evening. Before i left she wanted me to validate she would see me again.
I must say it really is nice having your cake and eating it too. It’s actually awesome and the situation most guys would like to frame if possible. The thing is you must realize, it wont last forever. more than likely at some point it will come to an end with her meeting someone else or something else changing the situation. Different things in life. It’s good to have your cake and eat it too, but you must be prepared to have it taken away at some point.
Stay Gaming!
Sluggler
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