Hey guys,

Love my girl and things are great, the issue i am having is her annoying fucking father in law. I am her first boyfriend and 5 years older then her but so is her father and his wife, they also met on young age so out of all people he should understand. Her mom is cool with her having a boyfriend but her father seems uncomfortable with it.

When he comes in the house and i am there he never really speaks to me, not a hows going? Or hows work, nothing... i ve been there 4/6 times now and i usually try to make some convo but iam starting to wonder if thats really my job to do... Whenever there is a guest in my house i try to make him/her feel comfortable by taking control of the conversation and offering drinks.

It comes to a point where i rather not get to her house anymore because i am not enjoying myself there anymore. Her mom is very nice though, overly friendly sorta speak. She also has a brother who seems to not like her having a boyfriend either because they have good band with each other.

What should i be doing? ive already told my girl once that it seems her dad and brother doesn't like me or something, she says their jealous and need to get used to the idea.

I think i am just going to be selfish and not go there often anymore since i don't enjoy myself. I do think it seems kinda AFC to tell my girl that i hate how her dad is acting towards me so i rather not tell her why i don't wanna chill at her place often anymore.

Any tips what you would do... Thanks!

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

They are guys and probably have to much caveman mentality. Meaning they should go for muslim countrys where girls dont have the same rights than man.

Lets face they are guys and you are fucking his little girl, some fathers dont have the stomach to digest those kinds of shits. like a friend of mine told me " I would never have kids so I wont have a girl to other guys bang" this kind of mentality still exists so dont sweaty.

Just be you... only talk with people that want to talk with you... you do you part that is saying hello to her father and brother. if they are NOTdoing the same, than is not your problem...

I wouldnt start convo with guys that doesnt want to talk with me.

Remember is not "YOU" its your gender and the threat you are to them.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

That makes sense but i do feel like i need to keep being nice and all to prevent them for hating me you know.. They told me that her brothers Ex never said anything to them and it made them feel like there visitors on their own house but now looking back i totally feel that girl.

We have been together for 1.5 month now so he might still testing me but his behavior better starts to improve after the 3 months mark or i won't be going there anymore.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.