Havent truly gone sarging in over 2 months...



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 7:35 am 
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Heres a backstory before I get to my point...sorry if its long...

Im embarrased to say that I havent actually sarged in over 2 months...Im a very busy person, and therefore I dont have the time to go out every day with the sole purpose of sarging. As well, I am only 18 so I cant get into bars/ clubs where I live...During the day when Im out, I do look for the oppurtunities to sarge, however HBs are far and few in between, thus AA usually overcomes me when I do eventually see an HB worth sarging...

Anyways, the last time I truly sarged was at a party in late October...the good thing is I got a K-close/ #-close/ a day 2 outta the party so its not like im coming off a bad outing atleast...since then my only other chance to sarge was at a party i went too where there was only 5 girls (1 HB), and about 20+ guys...I didnt attempt to sarge at all, and instead I got drunk and I just negged this one girl all night, and eventually she told me to F-off hahaha...as well Ive been practicing routines/ negs on female friends of mine but thats all...

Ok, so this upcoming weekend will be my first real chance to sarge in a long time, and im pretty nervous...the first party is on friday night, and Im not gonna know a single person their besides my friend who invited me...the good thing is that there is expected to be plenty of HBs...the next party will be New Years eve...I dont know where im going that night, but ill prolly end up at a party somewhere where ill have the chance to sarge....

So basically Id appreciate any advice on how to handle the long layoff?...since my last sarge Ive read "The Mystery Method", and downloaded/ watched the entire season of "The Pickup Artist"...Im currently skimming through MM and bookmarking key pages, and basically just taking in as much info as I can...but I just have the feeling that Im gonna be overcome by AA, and that Im gonna forget what ive studied...some good advice to help me deal with the mental side of sarging would be greatly appreciated


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:35 pm 
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You have the knowledge of what you need to do in your brain. Studying too much will only confuse you. Your emotions are going to try and fuck you up when you are out there. The two things I want you to focus on is practicing your openers in front of the mirror if you have to and secondly A2- "So, how does everyone know each other?" Repeat them, and practice them over and over. You know how to neg, you know how to build comfort.

Remember the basketball pro's still practice their free throws! Everyone practices the fundamentals. So keep it to the fundamentals and worry about the rest later.

*Last tip: try not to get drunk, it will only hurt your game.

GOOD LUCK! 8)

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You know enough, possibly too much.

Turn off your computer, put your shoes on, go outside and start interacting. You don't have to go after hot babes. Just meet as many people as you can.

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