Hey guys : Here's something I want to share and have some cues after for the following, hope some of you can help!

So last friday I did a hard HB10 approach. There was a bunch of dude with 3 chicks. So i went to them and used this opener :
Hey guys, some of u are u good drivers? Me and my Friend, are robbing bank across the street, and guess what (pause). Driver screwed us. All you need to do is pick us up at 11.00am, and drive us to airport. You'll get 3%.

-I've got to say this opener works like a charm since the people after discuss the % they should have-

So we start laughing about it and my target respond to me : I'll write to you my account number on your arm so you don't rob me.
So I respond to her : Don't count on it, I'll probably rob all you have (neg)
Anyway so we chat a bit and at one point I go away and leave my drink on they're table.

When I come back I grab my drinks and do as if I wanted to walk away and the HB tells me : Hey don't go away with that drink, It's mine! I knew you were a thief!
So i start arguing that's it's not true and for that lie she owes me a beer.

…... And so on

At the end the group are going away to meet some friends in an other bar.
So I tell the girl, with good body language and confidence that we should keep in touch on Fb... That who knows, maybe we'll see each other again. She agrees and say's she's sorry that she have to go (IOI). I reply it doesn't matter, you're with you're friends and I'm with mine, maybe we'll see each other again.

-Why did I ask for her Facebook instead of her number... I don't know if it's the right choice but she lives in a city one hour from where I live (Montreal) and it seemed the best choice to keep contact-

And know it's where it comes tricky, I add her on Fb and write her this :

Hey (name)
So I finally arrived to Mexico with my luggage full of money. And ok... I admit it. I did stole you're money but left you just enough for the beer you owe me. You remember it I hope?

And that's it....


But she didn't accept my friendship invitation and no response either... And you know how facebook works I know that she went on her Fb and for sure saw my message.

So here's my question for you guys : I'm thinking of maybe writing to her to say it's a shame she didn't reply and that I like to know why... You know... maybe I did something wrong and it would be good to know! What do you guys think about that?

needy

Yeah, if you do that you have good chance of screwing up the good work. BUT, if youd dont, you'll never see her anyways. So thats 0% chances of seeing her again VS 10% chances of seeing her again.

Id take my chances and send another message

Exactly like you're saying Jaeron, There's very few chances that we still meet... I'm just not sure what to write back without being too needy... Thinking about it!

I don't think it's smart to send her another message. Just as someone posted above, it may come off to her that you are needy which is never good.

I think FB msging can be kind of like texting. If a girl doesn't respond to a text, you don't want to send another text saying something along the lines of "hey why didn't you respond to me." It comes off as needy and demonstrates lower value.

It's hard to say what you did wrong however, there are lots of other women out there. I think it'd be wise to let this one go and find other women to game. Maybe you can send her another msg after a couple of months. Then again that might be kind of weird since she might still have not added you on fb. haha. damn. Good luck!

You're obviously experienced infield and I'm sure you are just as good with text/messaging. You probably already know what you're going to do and what you should do.

But what you shouldn't do is lower your value by sending her a text that portrays yourself as 'needy' or 'wanting her attention.'

What you should do is think about what she's going to see on your page once she adds you. The first thing she's going to look at is your profile, then your pictures, then your recent and past activities.

What I suggest is making yourself interesting If you haven't already, DHV with your pictures, starting with your profile pic and cover photo. Next, make sure you're making yourself exclusive when it comes to EVENTS. Make yourself busy by making plans to check out a new bar, restaurant or venue on the weekends. Catch a movie and tag yourself at interesting places doing interesting things. Like a few of your favorite pages/music artists/radio stations. This will not only help you with your HB, but with future HBs and current friends that you have on FB that may turn into more than just FB friends. Hope this helps in any way

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Whether you have success or not ~ Everything you try can be chalked up as a "learning experience".

give it your best shot, but most likely she thought your approach was too weak and she can't put a face to you, and carrying this on when she is flakin you will just come off needy (cause you are needy for her right now)

just do better next time and learn, go further, take more risk, go in stronger, stay in longer, go more for the gold, rather then the 5th place ribbon

GOOD LUCK

Thanks y'all for the tips! I appreciate!