Hey guys, this is a good discussion from Damien Diecke - Dating Coach/Business Coach/Mens movement leader who will be talking at the upcoming 21 Convention.

In this video, he's talking about his own experiences with casual sex relationships detailing how he goes about establishing them and maintaining them without anyone getting hurt in the process.

The Audio isn't fantastic, but there's some great material here.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TSLqXlKs_bc[/youtube]

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Damien D
Head Coach - The School of Attraction
The School of Attraction

Wow, I took a while to both watching this, but it's actually quite good. A bit slow in the beginning, but that's kind of answered a lot of questions...

One quick one though, you said that all your past relationships started off as casual sex.. What if you met a really great girl who ticked all your boxes but just wasn't into casual sex?

Hey Blast,

It is of course very possible, but very unlikely. You see, when I'm single then I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I very much enjoy being single, so I'm not really giving women who aren't sexually open much of a chance.

However if I met a woman in my social circle a few times, and started to really like her without sleeping with her, and she was completely okay with my promiscuous background, then I would consider it. IMO you have no idea what a woman is really like until you have slept with her, and she has no idea what you are really like either. When you sleep with someone a lot of guards come down and you learn more about the 'real' person behind the facade.

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Damien D
Head Coach - The School of Attraction
The School of Attraction

I must admit, I gained a lot of information from this video. Thank you for this golden information! People must watch the whole video though if they want to learn great stuff.

I'm just wondering, what if the guy fall for the girl and want more than just casual sex and the girl is not into it? I mean what if it will be the other way around? Do you think there are ways to change her mind and go for a serious relationship?

^ that exactly, fuck them first then work your way backwards to a relationship always easier...

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Hey mate, there's always a way for everything, but in situations like that I would argue that you are barking up the wrong tree.

If you are casual with a chick, you both get to know each other quite well over time. If she isn't interested, then one of 2 things (or both I guess) is going on.

1) She's got a powerful aversion to relationships, and honestly, buyer beware if you want to take a chance on turning her around without the baggage and nightmares that are sure to come.

2) She knows you and doesn't see you as the kind of guy she wants to date. In this case, the damage was done earlier on. You can work on her, but you would have to start behaving completely differently on an ongoing basis, and that my friend is a pretty hard thing to do.

Honestly, in those situations, your best bet is to just move on. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

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Damien D
Head Coach - The School of Attraction
The School of Attraction

Sorry, double post

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Damien D
Head Coach - The School of Attraction
The School of Attraction

Random hook ups seem to be the new normal with teenagers. Apparently, just like the horror called Camel Toe is in style, so is frenching your friends. Relationships are out and FWB (friends with benefits) is in..


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