Ok, she knows I'm a gentleman and all, aside from boyfriend destroyers, what's the best way to make a really close friendgirl dump her boyfriend. I'm texting her..?

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You want a boyfriend destroyer that isn't a boyfriend destroyer? That's just silly.

If its just that you tried to straw man him and it didn't work... bummer?

Outside of that, depending on your forensic and espionage abilities, you could find and/or fabricate evidence of him cheating.

Or, get her to cheat and arrange for him to find out.

I was not being entirely serious here. :p

IMO using boyfriend destroyer routines after day 2 is usually bad.....
A. It's outcome dependent (you care about her having a bf, your jealous, she has options you don't )
B. It's reactive (your letting her reality affect yours)
C. If she defends her boyfriend against your routine you will look value as fuck.

It's really better to DHV the shit out of yourself, escalate kino, build jealousy, cut her off if she want's to talk about bf..

If you have more s&r value to her and you have enough comfort to make your risk level low (you said she's already close so you have that comfort) she will be then willing to spend MORE time with you than him... as long as she's doing that, she'll make her up her own boyfriend destroyer routines (as she feels more attracted to you than him, she'll start backwards rationalizing why her current boyfriend is not the best option and she'll start noticing flaws more often in him.

It's really better to DHV the shit out of yourself, escalate kino, build jealousy, cut her off if she want's to talk about bf..

That's good.

Also, she asked me to meet up for coffee, because I'm nominating her for homecoming court, the cut off part sounds gold, She had said this: Aren't you a gentleman? Not all can be.

What are some ways to demonstrate higher value? I'm still kinda knew to this stuff.

I only know one kino thing, and thats the hand rub, you have really soft hands thing.

Her boyfriend already hates me, so the jealousy part is taken care of.

Any more ideas bro?

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[quote="ThomasThatLegend"][quote="pleasureseeker"]IMO using boyfriend destroyer routines after day 2 is usually bad.....
A. It's outcome dependent (you care about her having a bf, your jealous, she has options you don't )
B. It's reactive (your letting her reality affect yours)
C. If she defends her boyfriend against your routine you will look value as fuck.

It's really better to DHV the shit out of yourself, escalate kino, build jealousy, cut her off if she want's to talk about bf..

If you have more s&r value to her and you have enough comfort to make your risk level low (you said she's already close so you have that comfort) she will be then willing to spend MORE time with you than him... as long as she's doing that, she'll make her up her own boyfriend destroyer routines (as she feels more attracted to you than him, she'll start backwards rationalizing why her current boyfriend is not the best option and she'll start noticing flaws more often in him.[/quote]

It's really better to DHV the shit out of yourself, escalate kino, build jealousy, cut her off if she want's to talk about bf..

That's good.

Also, she asked me to meet up for coffee, because I'm nominating her for homecoming court, the cut off part sounds gold, She had said this: Aren't you a gentleman? Not all can be.

What are some ways to demonstrate higher value? I'm still kinda knew to this stuff.

I only know one kino thing, and thats the hand rub, you have really soft hands thing.

Her boyfriend already hates me, so the jealousy part is taken care of.

Any more ideas bro?[/quote] Focus on your ambitions, then act like your REALLY trying for those ambitions. Act like your getting very studious. IF her boyfriend is JEALOUS of you and she still hangs out with you, try to hang out with her more and more (don't ever pay for her as your just friends still)... escalate kino when you can. If you find out that her and her boyfriend have plans on a day, ask her out that day to hang out, try to get her to put off time with her boyfriend for YOU. Then she will connect with you a lot because psychologically she already chose you over her boyfriend.

Don't just look for singles there allot out there.
You should never do this. It will backfire.