Daygame_Bath. 19-08-12

Daygame in Bath.
Neo and I hooked up in Bath this Saturday to run some day game.
My objective of the day was to get out and open lots of strangers and try some different openers, Neo’s objective was pretty much the same.
Neo has bag loads of theory but not much practical experience, where I’ve got some practical experience(not much in daygame) and some theory, so it was good to meet up and discuss theory and thoughts on some subjects.

We started by opening 2s and 3s sets on the high street, mainly by asking directions, this was good to overcome AA within day game scenario, but was soon apparent that asking for directions as an opener in a place like Bath where there are lots of Tourists isn’t that effective for a following conversation.
Neo ran a ‘suicide make-up’ opener on some girl in a department store which I was pretty impressed with, this gave him one of his best results of the day, pretty Ballsy!

Then it seemed time to try something different so I switched to some compliment openers: First one was a NZ Dr about a HB6.5 really well dressed. I opened with a compliment on her scarf and asked where it was from,
HER “it’s from NZ”
ME “i probably won’t be going to get one of them today then!”
She was smiling and body language seemed good so I carried on...
Neo seems to think that my style is ‘natural’, but I always have certain things in the back of my mind to get out: E.g. ‘indirect compliment’ , ‘demonstrate value’ , ‘time constraint’ Until it all becomes easier, I think that these are good ‘starting’ routine additions.

ME:”I think the scarf would really suit my friend because she has similar blond hair and blue eyes to you”
She said something but it’s all blurry now, but anyway it was good because I carried on..
I introduced myself and held her hand during my introduction much longer that a general intro, trying to be delicate with her.
We talked a little about what she was doing in the Bath area and what her plans for the rest of the weekend were. Unfortunately, she was going to Scotland the very next day, but I found out that she was coming to London in Sept, so we talked a little about what i knew in London and said that we should meet up when she comes back down.

I offered an exchange of numbers and got her name, asking for her second name. I’ve got first names in the past and it just either seems a little less personal or like you’re not too bothered about them.

Time constraint in: ”we’ve really got to get going because I have to finish my shopping”
I completely forgot to give her my number and bailed out a little too early...but hey mission accomplished.

>>Development:
• In similar situations I could offer a meet later in the night depending on their plans.
• Take the situation more slowly and if I offer a number exchange, giver her mine.
• Make a pause in the conversation to see if she fills.
• Kiss close (two cheeks), if feeling brave (situation dependent) Lips.

EL_Tino

Good stuff mate. I wouldn't worry about getting a bird's surname, if anything its a good thing if you don't seem over bothered (abundance and all that).

As for kiss close? Don't worry about that quite yet. Something I've been doing more of recently is telling a girl to hug me then then kissing her on the cheek. This is all dependent on where you're both at with physical contact and mood, etc.

One last thing, maybe think about going on an instant date rather than meeting later on. If not, get her number.

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Thanks for the reply mate, yeah you're right about not bothering with a kiss close yet but i'm really coming from trying to induce a little bit of kino whether it's a kiss, stroke, hold her hand before leaving,, whatever, just to make that connection. The continental kiss is just too easy to get away with though!!

I like you're Idea of the instant date, i was reading some of your posts and was liking the one where you got the Vietnamese bird on an inst-date, good work!!, it just shows that you should capitalise on success when you're flowing well.

One thing i'll pick up from your posts is Hit Hit Hit...man you're an animal!, but i'm not sure if I could chase some girl down the street, haha or would want to!!

I went to the swimming pool tonight, just to loosen up and spotted this HB6.5, early 20s with her friend as soon as i got in there, started a conversation with her(really brief) and then got on with swimming. She was fooling around with her friend and some of the life guards talking about races, next thing I’m inducing a race between her, the friend and this life guard who was swimming(and i think trying with her), was pretty funny when she tried to pull me back, we had some more fooling about and I got her name so I could FB her, I don't think i could be bothered to hang around tonight or remember a 11digit # ....but the point is...sarge everywhere with a purpose and it'll start to come naturally.
El_Tino

I try to introduce touching as soon as I can. I tend to start touching her arm when talking and laughing etc. Then, if getting her name later in the interaction I will take her hand and maybe hold it a little longer than normal, creating some sexual tension. However it all depends on the situation, i.e. how shy she is, but you can test the water and build it from there.

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