It may be my approach though I feel like my profile is likely too weak or not written quite the way to appeal women, likely even my pictures as I haven't really put any effort into them. I really just need some advice so I can either tune up my profile, redo it and maybe just use different opening lines when I message anyone (I feel like a lot of times I put a lot of effort to try and be unique with my messages, yet I'm getting few to no responses to be honest...). Any help at all is appreciated, sadly getting a bit desperate at this point because I'm lost and can't figure out what I should be doing differently..

I'll post my URL when I can but for now you can either type in the site name /viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22942572 to see my profile or look up my username: ngecko

Try this:

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

thanks, and yeah I just checked that out a while ago, very good results so far, but I'm hoping to actually change up my profile a bit more with some help

First you give too much of information on your profile. Limited to few sentences, not 3 paragraph.

I'll be strait froward:

"I'm basically a very laid back guy, just looking to see where life takes me I guess." - NO, idicate no confidence, erase.

Don't mention about the The Children programs, you can mention it later when you meet the girl. Erase the whole paragraph.

Don't talk about money!

"I'm almost always modest when it comes to me, I don't boast, etc regardless of anything." - ERASE. Low value and confidence, once again.

"... and can be aggressive." - ERASE. Girls get afraid of aggressivness, and might think you're psycho.

Also the second pic - the guy with the hat on his face - retarded.

Your profile looks horrible. Needs revision.
Good luck!

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Madonna

awesome thanks for the help, going to rework it out tomorrow and try and scrap as much as possible. Will post back here with an update

Google around for "pua online profile" or similar to find some good examples as a starting point, but *don't just copy* you will have to be consistent with yourself once the conversations starts.

I also suggest getting some better pictures. $50, a craigslist ad, and an hour will get you a photo shoot with a photographer or aspiring photographer at an interesting location of your choice. Don't do it in a studio because that's too fake and obvious. A couple of changes of good looking clothes and a few uploads later an you have an awesome set of pictures for online.