So Im pretty good a talking to chicks in person but online is a totally different world.. lol sometimes staring at the screen gives me complete writers block and I can't think of sh1t to reply to some of these chicks.. I'm talking to this hb9 girl next door type chick and here's how the conversation is going.. (I'm in bold, her responses are in italic)

Serious question.... you can only pick one, don't cheat! Chocolate, Skittles or strawberries?

hmm I love Strawberries!

hmm, you must have cheated.. :] jk Actually those represent certain popular traits in chicks... What an odd ...but interesting choice...

what popular traits explain

ok you curious kitty, I'll tell you, but I think I'd want to get to know you a bit better first..

Tell me your name ;]

My name is ****** and urs?

*****... hmm That's pretty unique, I've never heard it before.. I like it.

So Miss. ******, I'm reading your profile & you sound like a super-normal, regular next door neighbor sort of woman. However; your picture capture an unmentioned quality about you...

Something in your eyes, gives away the fact that you're a bit spunky/sassy. There's a more upbeat, playful, adventurous side that you didn't describe. But it's totally noticeable.

Just sayin' =)

I'm ***** by the way...

oh ok ***** and what your saying in a sense is correct


So yea not too good but she's responding at least..
How should I go about replying to her last statement? She says my cold read was pretty much correct but I don't know where to go from here.. any help?

Why remover her name from her reply, only to leave it visible twice in the next line?

umm who gives a shit? common sense would indicate that I forgot..

As it should also indicate I was informing you of said oversight. Yay for hostile new guys!

Can I ask how old and how filled out her profile is? It gives some sense of what type of responder to expect. Young girls (21-23) with a half filled out profile are usually looking for validation, (what I'm reading here) if you act as if you are high value and start qualifying early you can get those types to work.

The tone is a little too flirty for my taste, but go with what works for you. I would have qualified her off of strawberries and then set up a second thread of logistics.

So: "Ah, you are one of those girls who only eats sweet foods and never touches her veggies aren't you?

I was that way until I had the sides at XYZ place, ever been?

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Hope it helps, I would also say start messaging more girls. Online is numbers game.

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Jackbnimble: wasn't trying to be hostile but to me it seemed like you just came into my thread to nitpick some shit on my post with out any type of input about the topic at hand... A better way would to have just been to tell me, " hey, you removed her name but left it in the reply afterwards twice if you didn't know.." Asking like they way you did made it seem like a smart ass comment..


Bscott: Thx for your input... She's 19...Her profile is pretty moderate.. not too short not too long..She lists a few interests: Fashion, designing, Dancing,Watching movies,indoor and outdoor sports,Music

her About Me:
Most people would say i am a honest, kind, confident, smart will speak my mind, compassionate, Kind hearted. But most of all i'm Different and loves to have fun and just be me

Some of my Hobbies are Dancing,Singing, cooking, Playing different sports especially volleyball,

My goals are to finish college and be working as a nurse somewhere in the world which i really enjoy doing, I am a very unique person who loves getting to know others,

I love all Kinds of Music, Sometimes Depends on the mood i'm in.


Great personality just love to relax chill and have fun. Independent & classy.Im a open, out going, down to earth person I love to smile and laugh

If you view me at least stop in and say Hi, I don't Bite (:

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and you're probably right about being too flirty, was just trying that tone with a few chicks and it seems like its going ok but its not really adding anything significant to the interactions.. I'll prolly cool it with the flirty tone unless I see some indications that a chick is receiving it well..

I don't really put to much into the strawberries thing, i just use it to open a chick and get her attention then I go from there.. I don't even tell her what it means, I usually wait until I get get them in person when and am escalating sexually, I ask them if they remember the strawberries , and then pull them out the fridge and then you know the rest.. lol

Ok, my experience is your profile and photos do 90% of the work online. I'd move more towards a casual/qualifying tone with them. See if that helps.

Also message a lot, message 20 girls a day, get a feel for what works and alter something in your profile every 2 weeks and see how that affects your response rate.

Hope this helps.

B

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Haha. I am a smartass, though. Doesn't mean I can't do that AND be helpful. ;p